Did he actually enjoy the handjob?

[Anonymous]

Well he is always pleasuring me first, so I did my best to help him and I am not that experienced but I'm getting better I think. He got very erect, and precummed but I couldn't get him to finish. He was breating heavily, snuggled into me and with his eyes closed hugging me but he went back to pleasuring me and well he was pulsing but I couldn't him come I guess and doesn't that mean they orgasm? I feel like I didn't do alright but how do you tell without asking?

[summiter]

If he is in the same age bracket as you...he will love a handjob. Maybe he jerked off a couple of times before being with you. Try taking it slower next time.Tease him...there is no rush! A handjob will feel so much better if you use some lube or lotion on him.

Sometimes alcohol, smoking and some drugs can dull the sensation, so try sex with no booze, drugs and if he smokes...have him mellow out with it and try exercise. It will get the blood flowing and help him out. Also tell him to refrain from jerking off of a day or so before you are together...he will be ready to blast off with your wonderful hands.

When giving him a handjob ask him to show you hoe he does it...a bit embarrassing, but watch him and see how he likes to please himself. Also ask him what feels best. I like the focus around the tip much more than around the shaft. But everyone is different, so ask him what feels best.

Try the lube/lotion...take your time...I hope it works out for both of you. Let me know if it works!

[sammysamson84]

well, I see the point about "not asking", but ... try this:

next time, when you are together, tell him that you want to make come but that you'll need a little feedback/help if you are doing this right ...

the good thing for you is this about guys: most of us are practical beings ... when you are doing something like this, and need help on what to do ... he want's to come ... he want's to help you ...

[justincider]

You can tell because he didn't finish. Rythm, speed, grip are all important. You got him close, but not all the way. Keep practicing, cause once you are good you can use your hands in ways he can't.

[Anonymous]

I am sure that he enjoyed the attention but having a hand job without cumming is very frustrating.

[Anonymous]

He really did enjoy it after all, you're there to see him.

[Anonymous]

Your best bet to learn good hand job technique is to watch a p*rn actress giving a hand job. Guys like a pretty firm grip and really fast jerking. If you really want to throw him over the edge suck on the tip while you're jerking him off and he'll nut for sure.

[Asker]

We aren't into oral but thanks for the answer

[Opinion Owner]

Arent into oral? That's madness.