Did my boyfriend jizz in his pants?

[Anonymous]

I was at the beach with my boyfriend and we were fooling around quite a bit, (making out and whatnot, nothing too shameful for public but still hot) and we'd just come out of quite a 'heavy breathing' round and he pulled me onto his lap and my hip was against his crotch and after a minute suddenly I felt my hip get kindof hot and felt really weird, and just when I started to really notice, he asked me if we could go back in the water. I didn't think much of it at first but it suddenly hit me, did he come in his pants? I don't think he had a 'cum face' or anything, but then again I probably wasn't paying attention, I don't think I was facing him, and he didn't seem 'worked up' or anything, but his crotch was distinctly hot and made my hip feel weird. Thanks for your maturity guys :)

[zalew]

It is definitely possible but there would usually be other signs, like no longer interested in making out because he's done! Trying to hide his groin area so you don't notice he has suddenly lost the former bulge... Men get turned on by visual stimulation, what else was going on around you, was there lots for him to see as in you wearing a bikini...

I have found in a close sexual relationship you can make him come without touching his body, but with a very slow, very wet kiss (on his lips), the imagination just runs wild with anticipation and flashbacks to previous sexual experiences that he can not help but explode.

What you are describing sounds like he had fought off the urges and wanted to go in the sea to cool off.. Also if he did and was trying not to let you know about it I think you would have sensed some embarrassment or weirdness from him.

[EverythingReal]

Since you're only describing it as hot, and not wet, I think you were just feeling his boner. You said you didn't notice any face and it sounds like there was no squirming around either. Depending on his shorts, you could have probably seen a wet spot too. I would say it was just heat from his boner. The more aroused, the hotter his crotch will get.

[Anonymous]

wait isn't the beach like really cold this time of year and why were you making out there? D: LOL

[Account]

Different hemispheres.

[Opinion Owner]

How you know where she lives?

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

It's possible. Though I think you would have been able to smell it, if you did. (Do you know what it smells like?)

Anyway, if you didn't make him cum, it's possible you got close, and he heated up from the excitement, and friction, in addition to all the blood rushing down there. Plus, it is possible that he wanted to go back in the water to let the cool water kind of... cool his jets, so to speak. The cold shower thing, just replace it with the water you were swimming.

But yeah, I will agree it's equally possible he blew his load and wanted to wash it off with a swim. It could go either way. If you did get him off from that, then I say bravo. Take it as a compliment. You're just that good.

[Asker]

No I don't know what it smells like. And what exactly does it mean when a guy needs to 'cool off'? I tried to ask him why he ran off (didn't want to embarrass him by straight out asking) and he just told me he needed to 'cool down' Thanks for your great response by the way :)

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

It's like this. If a guy is waaay to horny and wants to shut it down for whatever reason (don't ask me why, but anyway) a cold shower is pretty much guaranteed to shut down his junk, and keep it down. A body of cold water (such as a, bath, pool, lake, whatever) can also serve the same function more or less. Not only does it shut down an erection pretty damned quick, but it also can shrink his package, momentarily. Though, if he's not talking about his penis, then maybe he was just overheated.

[Anonymous]

I think if he came while you were pressed that tight against him you'd be able to feel his penis pulsing as the come came out. It was probably just body heat you were feeling.

[trey10]

He may have. Take it as a compliment. It happens.

[danik23]

probably... you can ask him!

[Asker]

I was a little hesitant about asking him "why'd you run off so quick when I was on your lap" in case he was embarassed, and he said "i think I needed to cool down"...