Did she give him a boner?

[Anonymous]

Last week my boyfriend took me to a nude beach. (We do this from time to time). And everything was fine until two girls arrived and put their towels next to us. They were not complete naked like us, they were just topless and wearing G strings, and I admit they were very sexy, especially one of them looked like a model with a super sexy ass. But they were definitely no more than 14-15 years old. I saw my boyfriend looking at the hot girl and he was hard. I think she gave him a boner cause he was not hard before they undressed. It was very embarrassing, especially because they saw him too... I said nothing but I felt so depressed and useless.. It's true I'm quite overweight , some 220 lbs and this girl was so slim and sexy... Why did they do this to me? I don't think they liked my boyfriend cause he is fat too... But he was so hard and looking at her, I know he liked that slim girl though she was obviously no more than 14-15.. Does it mean he's a pedophile? After all he's 28. When we got home home he told me it was random... but before the girls arrived he was soft, though I was lying completely naked next to him ?

[SkinnyBuddha74]

Look... First of all, if you're that insecure, then you have no business going to a nude beach with your man. Second, you don't know she was 14... a 20 year old can look 15, and a 15 year old can look 20. It's almost impossible to tell for sure these days. IF in fact she was that young, the way you described her, I would've gotten a boner too! And I'm no pedophile. Guys are turned on by sexy women. Just sounds to me like you're jealous, which can be a serious problem in your relationship. Let me ask you... does your guy ever get a boner from you? If so (and I'm sure he does at some point) then I don't know what you're worried about. As long as he finds you attractive, then you shouldn't be concerned if someone else turns him on also. If he acts on those impulses, then you have a right to be upset. If he doesn't then you need to get over it.

[smbcomix]

Dammit, why are people calling troll on this? It seems like a valid question to me. And isn't this site about asking and answering questions anyway?

The answer to your question, QA, could go either way. Either he really did find her sexy to look at or it was completely random and unwanted. Bear in mind, guys are much more visual than girls. We can't exactly help but look at females that are quite revealing. Or help but look at females, period. The only way you can get the real answer is if you ask him yourself and promise him he's not in trouble on that basis.

If he answers yes, then use your own judgment on how best to deal with it. :) Good luck

[Anonymous]

they made him hard, and its good, because any sexual being would get hard (or wet) at that. Don't let it bother you though, you've got him. Everyone gets turned on by someone other than thier lover at times.

[Asker]

I know she was hot but is it normal for a 28 years old guy to be turned on by a 14 years girl.

[Opinion Owner]

the way you desribed her, it sounds like she was pretty curvy and did not look like a child. That being said, you don't know her age. Its gross when a 14 year old looks like a child, but you can't tell by looks a lot of the time. I think you are focusing on that because it upsets you, but just beause a 14 year old is hot doesn't mean he is gonna do something about it (if he was single I mean)

[Minxxe]

whether or not you're a troll I don't care, I'd have slapped his chevy chase and left him there to look at children.

[b_luvedbaby]

Did he sleep with her? If not then get over it. Boners happen.

[Asker]

not of course, he didn't sleep with her, I think she wouldn't like him, but he was looking at her, his mouth was open

[b_luvedbaby]

Well you can either a) call him a pig and break up with him b) stop going to nude beaches if you don't want your boyfriend looking or c) accept the fact that he's a guy and if a girl's a** is right in front of him he's going look. Personally, I would choose option B.

[Butterfly_kisses09]

I sense a troll...

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

yes yes she did

[jedisatan]

trololololololololololol

[defiantly_beautiful]

tehehehe

[nate18]

troll or not lose some weight if your jealous. no he's not a pedophile for looking at girls that young. I know for myself I've done the exact same thing, look at the back of a 50 year old and think "f***, that chick is hot, then she turns around and she's old. or I have in lots of cases looked at hot girls and found out they are either very young or too old.

[Anonymous]

Lot of people calling troll here! Why don't you give us a more thorough description of the hot girl. And how did the react to your bf's boner? And how big was it?

[Asker]

she was tall, blond, long hair, long legs, sexy ass, only her boobs were not big,...she smiled to her friend, they were smiling, even laughing, ... and his boner was unusually big, he bastard

[Opinion Owner]

Too bad about not having a nice rack, but a sexy ass in a g-string sounds pretty good. How close were they? Did you make him come later?

[Asker]

very close.. about 10 feet..I guess they did it on purpose.

[Opinion Owner]

Guess so! How long did he stay hard? Must've gotten uncomfortable after a while. Did they position themselves in a way to give him a good view of the goods and get him really excited?

[Asker]

he stayed hard for a long time and didn't even bother to cover himself.. but true he got quite quite uneasy, even restless... the girls were just lying on their towels, and of course showing their goods, you can see everything from 10 feet,

[Opinion Owner]

Was he dripping a lot of precum? How long afterward did you start working on him?

[Asker]

are you perv?

[Opinion Owner]

Are you a troll?