Differences between porn and the real deal? What to expect tonight?

Im a virgin as you might have guessed so dont flame. Im dating a guy that i know he really wants me bad and im ready to go for it tonight! I've watched all kinds of porn and also practiced some positions alone so im ready to surprise him! However, my best friend told me something that got me worried. That its nothing like porn and no matter how prepared i am i will be his lamest sex ever for the first few months. This got me worried a lot, also because i never told my date im a virgin as he never asked. So what are the differences? What should I expect?
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thanks for the help! It was awkward indeed. I gave him oral and he blew his load really fast, and i wanst even going fast. So we sit there and make out after that and im waiting for him to get hard again but he won't and told me to help him out. So i give him more oral while i remove my clothes and then we devided to go for it. It did hurt a bit yes but i didn't show my discomfort. But he blew his load really fast again. Like in 5 minutes. I didn't cum. Is sex like that?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Most of the positions don't work/ are uncomfortable

    Stuff like doggy missionary and cowgirl are all good but some the the waiter looking ones just don't try as I won't work out well

    Also most of the moaning and orgasming in sync with the guy is also bullshit

    My advice just expire and discover together
    You will make musketeers it'll be a big skewed but you will work it out together and learn what each other really likes and needs

    Best of luck

  • Sex is not like porn. Real sex, especially first time sex, is awkward. Positions can hurt, you can mess up, queef, all kinds of stuff. Porn is like film: it's scripted, it's idealized and romanticized, real sex is great but it's not a movie script lol. Keep your first time SIMPLE, trust me you'll save yourself some stress if you do.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Everything you see in porn is faked or edited to be perfect. Porn is an unrealistic depiction of sex.

    Your first time will be awkward and might hurt if your hyman is still intact.

  • all your practice will vanish once you steps into it. act according to the situation. why should worry from now?

    • Because girls dont like to be called lame fucks, like you guys wouldn't want to.

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  • Don't listen to your friend because I watched a lot of porn and had sex with an experienced woman my first time and she never suspected I was a virgin

    • Was he a virgin?

    • He said he has had more than a few girlfriends before me. Thats why i was worried.

    • It's possible that it's just a combination of it being a while since he had sex and being excited to be with you for the first time. I was going to say damn you give amazing blowjobs making him blow in five minutes but since he blew so fast during sex to I don't know if your skill has anything to do with it. Try it again and if he still cums quick the next time you have sex then he is just a fast cummer so the best bet would be to have him get you off first with oral so that way when he blows you won't feel frustrated that you didn't cum

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  • Don't expect anal or a big load of cum on your face

    • Indeed his loads were just a few drops.

  • almost same.

    • He is surely not doing good, weak performance.

    • so you are saying that guys are not like that and that im just unlucky and my guy has premature ejaculation like my friend says? Will it always be like that with him?

    • yes it is, may be he do better next time, if it happens everything that means its useless dick. it won't make you orgasm from such a weak performance.