Dirty talk

Can anyone tell me how to talk dirty. My boyfriend says he likes it but I really don't know how. Any SPECIFIC lines/phrases that do the trick? Thanx
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and please don't tell me to be myself or be natural. None of that. I want specific ideas of what I can say that will sound HoT. Thank you
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  • Some help from a lady who stumbled upon this on accident:

    I tell him exactly what I want. The natural thing doesn't work. But I am a naturally bossy person, so that's easy for me.

    Some things guys like: my guy really likes it if we're doing one thing, like second base, and I make him stop, and teasingly kiss him and say what I want next. AKA "Now. Please." "Stop teasing" "I can't wait anymore". Contrary to popular belief, you don't have to drop a million and one f-bombs. Guys want to hear that you want them, no, that you absolutely positively NEED them and only them. You tell them that, testosterone rush, biiiiiig turn on, turns very passionate, is very nice.

    Another random thing- to start reeeeaaaally slow, make a goofy nickname for different body parts. Not really for serious dirty talk, but it's fun! Laughing is sexy! Be like "kiss my bubble gum". I'll leave what that means up to the imagination. :P

    Also, let him make a nickname for you. Once he loosens up, you'll see it's fun! But a hot one that you only use in bed. Something that turns you on. Examples: dirty girl, big daddy, ect. When he finds it, you'll surprise yourself!

    • Haha love it and kiss my bubble gum is so cute haha thanks!

  • Try reading some sexy stories. There's a lot of websites out there, or get a book like "The Best American Erotica." Some of them you'll like, some you won't, but pay attention to the way the authors use language. See what turns you on.

    Maybe you and your boyfriend could each pick one and then read it to the other. It might be an easier way to start saying stuff if you're not used to it.

    You can also rent a couple pornos and see what the girls say.

    I'm not a big dirty talker, but I have done it a lot with some guys. The big thing is it has to be sexy to both of you.

    The general theme, if you're trying to turn him on, is how much you need & want him and how good or big it feels inside you. Try play-acting like you're addicted to his penis and want nothing more than it inside you, and tell him all about it. I guarantee he'll go crazy for this trick.

    I won't tell you exactly what to say, because it probably wouldn't sound right coming from you. Just be spontaneous, creative, a little slutty and uninhibited.

  • I'd say the key to really hot dirty talking is fantasy. Fantasize about an erotic situation, play different roles, etc etc. Hmm. an example, pretend your having a secret sexy affair with one another and discuss times where you've almost been caught or been so overcome by raw, animal-like passion for one another that you've f****d like you've never f****d before. Talk about these in intimate, sexy detail. Talk about each others bodies, imagine your hands are everywhere you want them to be. Use bad language, dirty, bad language and use it with confidence and passion. Breathe heavily down the phone, groan and just carry on naturally from there.

    An idea if anything.

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  • It has to sound natural coming from you (I know you said don't say that, so I'll go on).

    Start by using phrases that you feel comfortable using: large, big, "touch me", "fill me up", "I'm hot/wet for you" etc.

    Then when you can say those things easily start trying out new words (the kind of words that are banned on swear filters) just replace the words you were using with those.

    Guys want to be told two things:

    1. You want them to take you

    2. When they take you, you love it

    So start by telling them that :)

    • Thats hot! haha I like that

  • I am a dominating man, so when a girl calls me "daddy" that's pretty hot, in the right context, of course. lol

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  • well I think the common misconception is that in order to talk dirty you have to be REALLY dirty, but its actually pretty simple. you could just comment on how good what he's doing feels (oh god that feels so good) or tell him what you like (yeah baby right there, or if you're feeling bold: I like it when you ___my ____). if you want to go dirtier than that you could just say things like f*** me harder baby.wow I feel really weird typing this haha, but I hope it helps

    im with a guy that talks dirty and it kind of makes me uncomfortable because, like you, I don't really know what to say, but I'm getting better at it.

    • Thanks!

  • Use vulgar language. Don't say penis or vagina. Make sure you tell him you want him to f*** you, not make love or anything like that. Also, just tell him exactly what you want him to do to you. Where you want his dick to go and what you want to do him, etc. Try role playing too and get into character.

    • Thats delicious

  • personally I think that should come naturally just say anything that you would like to say to and what would turn you on

  • im not very comfortable with dirty talk, at least how to approach it and start doing it

    my best suggestion is you take one of your hottest fantasies and pretend it was a dream you had. be like, oh I had the hottest dream last night.and you were in it.

    trust me, he'll ask you for details. and its bound to turn him on.

    i like this technique because pretending it was a dream lets my imagination go wild and not feel silly or like he's judging me. because after all.it was "just a dream"

    • So pretend I had a dream and lie? ok that's cool but can you please give me specific dirty phrases to use PLEASE...too many of these answers are too vague. I wanna read something dirty so I know exactly what to say not just oh "think of a fantasy" cause I don't have any. thank you

    • Does this work on girls too?

    • smart way...i like it

  • Preacherman is right about the daddy thing to a point. Some guys love it, although I've never been with one of those guys. All the guys I know think it's creepy. However if your guy is into it, go for it. If the guy is into it, it will drive him wild. Most guys would just prefer to be called by their names.

    You could tell him how things feel. Start out with something simple like "I love it when you do that" or "that feels good" and then you can amp it up later. If you're comfortable with those clean phrases you can become more comfortable with dirty ones.

  • alot of guys like hearing "your dick is so big I can feel every inch of it inside me" and "F* my pussy/clit" me and my man pretend that he is a teacher and I'm the student working for an A+... lol or he's the doctor and I'm the sexy nurse he couldn't refuse to have sex with in the hospital I found if you role play you can come up with more things to say... and believe me you can say almost anything to a guy during sex even if you think its stupid to him its probably hot.

    • Great comment! Sounds like material I'll use Thanx!