Do all men like to do it in the rear end? and why?

[Anonymous]

The guy I have been dating recently asked me if he could do me in the ass, I said we could try, well we did and it wasn't all that bad. He said he wanted to come inside me, that's why he wanted to do it. I think there is more behind it then that. I had a guy once tell me its a dominant thing is that true? is it like submission? He also wants to try out these hand cuffs he has, what's that about? more domination and submission? I'm willing to try it's exciting so. but why? what does it mean?

[malanda]

When I make love to my girlfriend in her vagina it just feels more intimate and loving - I'm less keen on "doggie style sex" although we do do it. However, I must say I really do like anal sex, for the reasons mainly mentioned: my girl's bum is simply tighter, and it somehow seems more daring, and we do it when we are both wanting sex for sex's sake and not with much romance. Don't think there's anything wrong with that. As long as both partners enjoy it.

The first time we did it I came too quickly, and I found that I had trouble getting my penis in her bottom and staying there, but we managed to get better at it!

I've never tried the handcuffs, I must admit. Not my thing, but again if its exciting, enjoyable and feels right, then go for it!

[sammy1988]

No, anal sex is tighter and he can grab your ass and squeeze it. That's why a lot of us like doggystyle too, the ass is put to use. Personally I think anal is gross and shit is disgusting to have on your genitals, but some guys are willing to forgo that hygiene principle just to blow a load faster.

[Shlei3]

There are different reasons for both things:

Anal: Guys like it because it's quite tight and it's a bit riske. It's different than doing it vaginally. A part of it might be submission as well. And not every guy likes to do it. I know a lot of guys who are a bit freaked out by it.

Handcuffs: Handcuffs are fun. It's fun to torture in a friendly way the reciever. You can lick, caress, kiss, suck and do other fun things.

Basically it sounds as though the guy is just finding new ways to spice up the sex life. It's great that he's doing this. It shows he's putting in effort. So, as long as he isn't crossing any boundaries just sit back and enjoy it.

[Asker]

Thanks, I will!!!!

[Wtfgirl]

It's tighter. It may be a dominance thing, but I think it's because it's a tighter area.

[Cobalt10]

usually the ass is the best substitute to a guy for a vagina

esp when you're like 40 and want something new to do

but after I read the handcuff part I deff think it's a submission type of thing

and this will lead into other parts of your life so make sure you keep him in line

but coming inside a girl is 100% better than coming in her mouth or on her be you both experience the muscle spasms from the orgasms together

[NightOne]

For me it was the excitement and the taboo of it all. The first time I had anal sex I nearly blow the top of my head off the orgasm was sooo intense. and its maybe that . Definitely not a dominance thing for me. I think the handcuffs are dominance thing though.

[CastAwayRI]

To me, a girl can't take enough come in her ass. PUSH OUT when he is shooting in, to help open the hole, and clench off, like holding for the bathroom, when he is done. You can make it so every drop stays in your ass for hours. Just adds a litle spice to the whole thing. Silk scarves are easier on the wrists than hand cuffs!

[JCvarsityFootball]

dominance

[wryterguy900]

I've never tried it, but from what I've heard, men like it because it's so much tighter than pussy. But to me pussy is wonderful.

[Gilbertd]

My first question would be do you know the guy is disease free? I believe in safety first. I'm not into bondage S&M, so I so I can't really get into the motivation, myselft it would be more about safety again. I won't let a woman tie me up if I don't feel really safe with her. I like to take a woman "doggy style" because I love to feel her ass bumping into my crotch as my dick goes into her as deep as I can get. My other favorite part of this position is that my woman can reach back and gently squeeze my balls. She also controls the frequency and depth of my thrusts by having me "by the balls" ;-). Of course I'm also a cuddler and love to leave my dick in my woman until she needs to move.

Not sure if I gave you a "all guys are like this" answer, but this is what I like and why.

[VAGitarian]

You cuddle with ur dick in her?

[Anonymous]

some guys like to feel like there woman is submissive and he is over powering her with his muscles. Arnold swartsinager used to have sex with a women right before his weight lifting competition. the woman used to get polverised by his thrusts they could barely walk afterwords. but they said it felt realy good.