Do boys like to corrupt good girls?

I was with this boy the other night when my grandmother called. I pushed him aside to answer the call (we had even been making out) and when I finally got off the phone, he said, "You're so nice" and jumped on me. Sometimes I feel like this guy likes me because I'm all cute and innocent, and I know part of my attraction to him is that he's not (he's very sweet with me, but he's way more experienced than I am). I'm not really upset with it, but I'm wondering - am I in the ball park here, guys? Are you attracted to sweet girls, ones who are so oblivious to sex they can't sound sultry if they try?
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  • it's very attractive to be good and cute. I prefer more strong women type girls because I find them more interesting and more compatible personalities with me personally, but I understand the attraction to nice sweet girls.

    It's like the attraction to the strong hunter guy. Not the dark one, but the nice hunter man who brings home the meat lol. I also find cowboy guys sexy, but I know if I got one most of them would bore me silly after a week so I go for the cosmopolitan guys and girls like I already said.

    But he likes you because you're the female version of cowboy attraction. You probably put out signs like a good mother and a good wifey type girl who is probably a great cook and stuff.

    I know this all sounds quite sexist and I'm not saying that's who you really are but attraction is very stereotype sometimes, and that's the stereotype vibe you're putting out even if it's not you. And as I said already I don't even go for the stereotypes anyway so bring on the haters...

    Hope this helps :)

    • Personality-wise I'm strong. I'm very independent and can easily take care of myself. But when it comes to sexuality I'm almost an invalid ha ha and yes, I am very motherly. I'm just wondering if he wants to be the one to turn me into a nympho or something.

    • idk he might take pleasure in turning you into a slut or at least trying lol but he might just find it really attractive that you're sweet ^^ I know I tend to find things attractive that I'm not for example I have a kind of weird nose not too bad, so I looooove cutesy noses, but I think if I had a cutesy nose myself I wouldn't really care that much XD. And I used to be obsessed with tans...till I got one, now I like pale too hahaha.

  • I don't know how to corrupt good girls, but I'm always eager to help a good girl corrupt herself--I'm a genius enabler.

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  • You're a challenge, aha. He probably just wants to see if he can get a 'good girl' like you. Wether he actually cares about you or not, I think he does. But who knows.

    • Sadly he's doing a very good job... he's already gotten me to do way more than I've ever done. I hope he doesn't lose interest (then again if he's only interested in me as a challenge do I want him around?)

    • Well, if he does think of you like that then yeah, dump him. Just don't give it to him too often, and especially when he doesn't deserve it. Although, if he just wants sh*t he'll either bounce pretty soon (if you've just recently started hooking up) or he'll keep you around for an easy lay. Or if you haven't had sex yet, that's why he's still around (if he's a jerk.)

    • We haven't had sex yet, but he didn't try. He's put moves on me pretty far and tried oral. I said no to the oral, and he didn't push sex. In fact, he said no to sex before I could.

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  • Why are you so cynical aobut every male in the world?

    • If that's the way I come off, it's no twhat I intend. I'm just honestly curious. I know part of my attraction to him comes from him being experienced, a type of forbidden fruit because he's so different. I'm wondering if its the same with him. Maybe he's been with experienced girls before.

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  • not necessarily, depends on the guy