Do girls bleed after their first time?

I'm a virgin, and I'm planning on staying a virgin till marriage. But the thought of ever loosing my virginity scares me. Do girls bleed after their first time, or does it depend on the girl?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • No. Bleeding is caused by the hymen being broken. Basically the hymen is not a very strong piece of skin. It is a cover over your virginal opening. This can happen during day to day life. If you are using bicycle from childhood or horse ride or masturbate with your own fingers, it might have done it. It do not need his P*** to do it. It has no relation with your virginity. Virginity is only counted as when a girl has intercourse so if she lost her hymen in any other way she would still be a virgin. Bleeding can actually interrupt first intercourse as a lot of guys find a mess being made by blood a bit of a turn off.

  • It would depend on the girl, since you'll have sex when you're married. I'd assume he would love you and care deeply about you so id expect that he would do everything he can to make it as comfortable as possible. all in all, it likely will hurt a bit the first time at least but won't be so bad and could bring you two closer

    • :D That's a nice way of putting it :)

    • exactly :P, don't fear it so much lol. just be happy to go through it with a guy that you'll be with forever that you can remember

Most Helpful Girls

  • Some do, and some don't. It really depends. I didn't bleed my first time... It was a bit painful, but don't worry -- it gets better, I promise! There's nothing to be afraid of... Bleeding or no bleeding, pain or no pain, it's all natural. Just make sure to lubricate and take things slowly (and use protection, of course, if you're not planning on getting pregnant immediately after marriage). You'll be fine!

  • some girls will some girls don't it all really depends on if your hymen has been broken through other things (I rode horses and bikes a lot so mine was pretty much broken when I had sex for the first time and was ok)

  • If their hymen is already broken through (masturbation, horse back riding etc.).

    Then they will not bleed.

    If your hymen is still in tact chances are you will bleed.

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  • Not everyone does I did!

    • o: why did You bleed?

    • Because he broke my hymen!

  • I can tell you that I won't be bleeding my first time (I am a guy). :P

    And only virgins should be allowed to marry.

    Or well, only when both marry as virgins (i.e. no sexual contact prior to a lifelong commitment) should it be considered a 'marriage/lifelong commitment/genuine'

    The rest of you guys -- go find something else to do.

    • This question isn't related to marriage :/ Though I do plan on marrying a virgin too. But I don't think there's anything wrong with non virgins marrying too.

  • Not all girls bleed. It depends on the strength and thickness of the hymen, and how hymen attached to the wall of the vagina.

  • What's the big deal? It's not like you've never bled from your vagina before.

  • Some girls do. Some girls don't.

    For some girls, the first time is painful. For others, it's not.

    Some virgins still have their hymen. Some don't.