Do girls clean themselves out "downstairs" before sex?

I'm a virgin and I know how a lot of girl complain about guys expecting oral but not giving it..I understand your issues (but to be perfectly honest..girls..u have to at least admit that putting your mouth AROUND something...and putting it INSIDE something isn't the same)...I do want to be able to give oral when the time comes even if it grosses me out I wanna be able to..i guess maybe the idea of it will be like the fluid will taste bad or like the are will be really sweaty and smelly...I'm worried it would be like licking someones arm pit...so like do girls do anything to wash themselves up? id be willing to wash off my downstairs or at least wipe it with some baby wipes to make it pleasant.
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  • Well, obviously people vary in their personal hygiene habits.

    That said, I think most girls will try to shower before seeing their guy, especially if they think they'll end up fooling around. Also, a lot of girls are a bit self-conscious about how their genitals taste/smell, and so they'll put extra effort in making sure they're fresh.

    Although, keep in mind that often sex happens pretty spontaneously, so she might not be straight-from-the-shower fresh. However, that doesn't mean that she'll smell or taste "gross", just a bit stronger than if she had just gotten out of the shower. My own partner actually prefers my "natural" taste better than the just-showered taste---he says it tastes good and really turns him on.

    I've given oral sex to girls before, but I've never gone down on a girl who tasted bad or "gross". It's a unique taste, sort of sweet/sour/salty, but not gross.

  • Ok this is important. If the odor or taste is really bad... then it may mean some infection or something weird. Don't worry mate. You'll see that when the time comes, you'll just want to eat her up because the smell (though strange in the beginning) is alluring. Now, I don't clean before sex just to get some oral. No. I mean if I've showered recently and I wipe decently, then it's good to go. My exboyfriend also didn't clean just for sex. He was always clean from regular showering in the morning. You don't have to smell like soap all the time. You'll get used to the smell of sex!

  • If it is a planned thing where I would expect sex at some point I would shower and such. I also carry feminine wipes which I can quickly use to give it a bit fresher smell if it has been awhile since the shower and maybe I pee'd a couple of times

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  • It's better a day after, Say watching movies.
    After the shower is bland with Almost no smell.
    Hours later, The smell is more in your face.
    Next day it taste sweeter [Week after she's had her period]
    Next week with no shower... PROBLEM, I've never encountered it but my mates don't LIKE it, Espesh after she's peed, It starts to smell... fishy or after her period.
    It's better one or two days, Plan it with her, She'll most likely shower first as you should too, No girl wants your dick to smell like Trash just like you don't want her to smell like fish.

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  • you have a lot to learn. You don't actually have to put your mouth inside of a girl. And yes, most of us do clean up. I'd say that with guys it is almost worse. They need to clean themselves too!

    • how do you not? its inside the beef curtains atleast...and I don't know what parts the girl wnats licke dbut you gotta acess that too

    • Men are not more dirty than girls and girls stink too!

  • Yes, I do and I think most girls do as well.

    • I hope many don't, I mean girly girls. Body odour and dirt are the most sexy 😍

  • You can wash the outside but not really the inside. The vagina is actually self cleaning.

  • Of course, I usually shower right before, but wipes if not. And I would have showered really recently. So. shaved would always be a thing too.

  • Yes, I do clean myself up before sex. Always, because I don't want to smell gross or be in any way disgusting, it also helps it all feel better to be clean beforehand.

    • It's sexy, not disturbing. Washing kills natural sexy body odour.

    • I mean, not disgusting. And being too hygienic is boring.

  • Most girls do even if it is getting a little hot & heavy a lot girls will go to the bathroom to freshen up. No girl would want to turn a guy off by smelling or tasting bad.

    • It's Nonsense. Body odour is atractive. Being too hygienic is overrated and makes body smell boring. Girls stink too anyway!

  • You won't mind it. No cleaning required.

  • yes, most girls carry feminine wipes with them or baby wipes and if they can they will freshen up in the bathroom prior to intercourse

    i wonder how spontaneous people do it though, like when they have random sex in the car or public place or something...then I have no clue!

  • As human beings, we should all practice good hygiene, so I'm quite sure that the majority of people do take care of themselves. And yeah, I can tell you're a virgin based on your concerns.

    • Lol when you're a virgin these are legit concerns. Better to mentally prepare then to freeze like a deer in headlights and completely blow it.

    • No, we don't have to practice good hygiene, I mean eliminate sexy smells by overdoing hygiene.

  • lol I usually do anything to keep it clean before sex, and in general

    once you do it you'll probably like the smell (pheromones) and taste especially if she keeps it clean

    most guys do

    • There's no pheromones, when you wash yourself too regulary.

  • Majority of us do wipe before that.

  • I recommend remaining a virgin

    • lol