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Do girls ever forget the guy who took their virginity?

Do you still have any kinds of feelings towards him? Do you still think about him? Do you miss him?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Well thought I haven't forgotten the date it happened (Jan. 5, 2007... was either a Monday or Tuesday.. around 10 pm), I don't think of him in a romantic way anymore for the longest and have no interest in ever going back to him, not even if he were to come knocking on the door with a ring.
    So if you mean forgetting as in moving on and having no feelings for him? Yes, I have totally forgotten.
    But forgetting as not remember when it happened? Nope, that's still in my long-term memory somehow even if I don't care about him. Kind of similar to not ever forgetting your A, B, C's nor your times tables once you learned it.

    • Nope, I don't miss him. But it's just that single date memory that my brain doesn't allows it to forget it.

  • I know I haven't forgotten. I honestly don't know how I feel about him, I'm not saying I want to be with him, I'm saying that I should hate him, but I don't. I think the reason for that is because he made it a good experience for me, for some reason to me that outweighs the fact that he was just using me. I think about him here and there, but I can't really say that I miss him. Like I said, I should hate him but it's whatever, I can't change how he felt or anything, it's in the past and it's a learning experience.

  • I'm still a virgin, but I can say at my age, I'll most likely remember him, whoever he ends up being. All I want is for it to be someone I care about who cares about me as well. Even if it's just a close friend. Just a decent guy who isn't a total a-hole. If he's at least nice and cares to some degree, I wouldn't regret it.

Most Helpful Guy

  • My girlfriend swears up and down she doesn't know who took her virginity. She used to be a big whore and slept with about 20 people in a year and a half... but she's honest and told me every person 16th details cause it was driving me crazy and I just wanted the truth... but when I asked who took the virginity she says "idk"... is this believable ladies? She's very honest with me and doesn't lie often, so can this be true?

    • She is a manipulator and a liar.. be careful from her

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  • For me, no. But I think my situation is a little more unique than most. Anyway, yes to the rest of the questions.

  • I hate him, that counts as a feeling doesn't it?

    • why?

    • because he manipluated me into having sex with him when I wasn't ready, and when I was too young, he lied to me about things and I was too young, naive and stupid to realize it.

  • never never never never never never never never ever ever ever. unless she was drunk or on drugs...or unless she really doesn't want to recall it/it wasn't anything special...or she's slept with too many people to recall.

  • Nope I remember the dude who took mine. he was a best friend for a long time. Then we started going out and then BAM! :D

  • I haven't had sex yet, but I hear that when girls first have sex their body releases some type of hormone that kinda makes them attached to said person. But I don't know if that's true. I feel like if it is, it'd be pretty hard to forget about your first time, unless of course you were drunk lol

    • Pitocin is one of them, and the most powerful for forming attachments. Same hormone that facilitates labor and breastfeeding.

  • Well I remember him as my first, but I definitely don't have feelings for him.

  • Not all girls.

  • Most won't forget but some do. No and no to the questions

  • This guy took my virginity last year. He's way older than me. He's a soldier and I'm still a student. I'm trying my best to convince myself that I hate him and that I've already forgotten every thing about him but honestly speaking, I still miss him. I always do. DO GIRLS FORGET THE ONE THAT TAKES THEIR VIRGINITY? My answer for this is NO. You will never be able to forget him. He will always have a place in your heart.

    I sometimes wish to be with him again... FOREVER.☹

  • i was drunk and the guy pressured me. I don't really have much feeling towards him except it was a big waste. since I was drunk it was barely much of an experience at all I am not even the type who fools around with guys easily it was a dumb mistake. ack reading this makes me so scared to have sex with anyone else because my friends all tell me since I was drunk the next guy I have sex with is going to be very "real" and "memorable" for me.

  • You never forget the guy you lost your virginity to. In terms of thinking about him or missing him. that depends on the guy and the relationship. You may still think about him, but that doesn't mean you miss him. He may have just hurt you and you think about all the pain he caused you.

  • i doubt it but I'm sure some girls regret losing to the guy they chose

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