Do girls ever initiate the sex or is it always the guys?

If it is always guys,why girls don't initiate
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I think girls do. But often, guys are on the take when it comes to sex or they are more concerned about "performance" rather than whether she really enjoyed it. If a woman is relaxed and feels the guy actually cares about her enjoyment, I'm sure she'd initiate too. If a woman feels she has to perform some acts she doesn't like or feels pressured to preserve a guys ego, then she likely won't initiate.

    I think men fail big time in this area by not allowing women to feel open and free in this area. The more open and free a woman feels, the sexier she will feel and the more she will want to do, learn and explore. I think guys drain the sexiness out of sex when he pressures her to do things she doesn't want, makes it an ego test, or refuses even to go at her pace.

    Women are like ovens, men are like microwaves. It's always easy to turn on a microwave and get a hot meal from a box. But, if you want a real meal, you're going to have to turn on the stove and wait for it to heat up. At which point, once you heat it up, its hard to cool it down. If a man wants a woman to initiate sex, he needs to start early in the morning.

  • I always initiate sex, at least half of the time, usually more. I'm not shy about expressing my desires. If I want sex, I'll say so, or initiate with physical touch. If I can't comfortably express my desires toward someone I'm sleeping with, then I probably shouldn't be sleeping with them in the first place.

  • I initiate quite a lot xD

    It just depends, some girls are scared to come off as "easy" or "slutty"

    We're all different.

    I attack him when I want it, likewise for him

Most Helpful Guys

  • Its generally always us, girls don't really want to take the risk of coming off as easy or sounding like a slut so they hold back.

  • More often it is the females that will initiate. Honestly it doesn't matter, as long the end result ends in sex.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Of course we do! Absolutely. Sorry to say this, but...DUH.

    • <3

  • for me I love they guy doin it forcefully.

  • I instigate sex a lot. I don't like beating around the bush; if I want it, he'll find out.

  • It should be equal (>.>)

    • PMSL ! Shoulda, Woulda, Coulda

  • Huh? Is females more often than not...er...at least that has been my experience...o.O

  • I always initiate it.

  • Of course they initiate sex. if you've made them horny enough :)

    • "if you've made them horny enough?" ...Oh brother! Trust me...we don't need you to get horny, just like you don't need us, it's just hormonal.

    • Yes and that's called masturbation 'sister' Think about it, you're by yourself feeling hormonal you may masturbate. You're with a guy you like and are attracted to, due to feeling 'hormonal' there's a strong likely hood you want to have sex. These hormones you talk about don't just spring out of nowhere, and the fact that you're with this guy you like or you boyfriend and even contemplating having sex, means they had something to do with it, commonly known as chemistry. x

  • i do it a lot

  • If you don't know that women initiate sex with men...then you've been with the wrong women.

  • usually I was the one to do it with my past boyfriends

  • It's about the same.