Do girls feel embarrassed when having a big butt?

my girlfriend have a big and sexy butt( for me I think its sexy) and I like it... but she trying all ways to make her butt become smaller although I have said that I like her big butt... did you all girl don't like or feel shy when having a big butt?
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  • Yeah I do.. sometimes I am proud of it.. like when guys give me compliments... but at the same time I can never walk around and feel like my body isn't the one of the first things people notice about me. I have a very small waist and big hips/butt and sometimes I wish that I could just be petite, walk around with little shorts on, and feel free from looking so curvy. Kind of like how a guy can walk around and his body isn't being judged or checked out because of his baggy, comfortable clothes. If I were to wear a baggy shirt, I would just look fat which is even worse than being checked out ha ha So yeah sometimes I feel embarrassed and sometimes when I want to look sexy.. I like it!

    Also, I grew up with a lot of women who told me that big butts were bad (different generations), and that women need to be super slim. So I always felt ashamed of my body.. I am actually surprised lately to hear that a lot of men actually like hips/butts because I was taught that boobs were the most important and everything else should be skinny.

  • there's nothing wrong with a little extra junk in the trunk but as I also carry most of my weight on my ass and hips it can look disproportionate to my top half which is fairly slim...so I try to exercise,yoga+gym and eat healthily keep it toned...it definitely will help her self consciousness if you let her know open a regular basis how sexy you think her ass is:)

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  • The attention can be a little much. Imagine walking through a crowd and someone out of the blue just grabs your butt; it's not an ideal situation to be in. Also, a lot of guys like the idea of a big butt and like seeing them in jeans but they don't take into mind that having a naturally big butt usually comes with cellulite or stretchmarks, which is another thing girls may be embarrassed of.

  • personally I have a little junk in the trunk and I like it. BUT a lot of girls feel the pressure of wanting to be thin and it gets to them. just make sure she knows you love her body, but don't expect her to change the way she thinks

  • I am embarrassed because I have a flat butt.

    • Flat or not is not a prob for me, as long as it is big, it will be good to grab do you know men like her girl having a big butt? all men can,u tell me do you like girl having big butt or not?

    • Wisdom: Nothing can beat a nice butt.. Nice here is a relative thing...for few men nice means small...but for many many men nice mean a big round butt... For me, it is like a piece of art. I have had all my 5 gfs having big butts.. Not sure if this just a coincidence but for sue it is something that really attracts many men (including me for sure). I see that a man has a big role to give the confidence to his girlfriend that her big ass is just amazing and turns him on, especially on a doggy position.