Do girls get satisfaction from anal sex?

My girl and I have never tried it. Although I have mentioned to her that I'd like to try it and she sounds open to it. I have fingered her in foreplay or during sex and she hasn't stopped me. But as far as me actually putting my penis in her, I haven't done it. What do I need to make sure I do so that it's pleasure for her as well and do girls really like it?
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  • It can be extremely pleasurable for a woman but you have to do it right. Some tips

    Make her come a few times before you get started. You might want to place a thumbpad on her asshole while you are doing this to draw her attention.

    Use way too much lube, the ass doesn't get wet and it can tear if you dry snag it.

    Do a lot of finger play. Start with one and move to two when she gets used to it. The anus has two sphincters, the outer one is under voluntary control, the inner one opens automatically to pressure on the inside. Gently massaging this with a come hither motion relaxes and dilates it.

    Now use your other hand and mouth to get her off again.

    Kiss her passionately and go home.

    Next time, repeat the above steps until she feels comfortable with the play.

    Now do it again until she is eager for the play.

    Then and only then is anal sex likely to be successful.

    Last point. The anal canal isn't straight. It tucks first toward the navel and then about 2" in toward the small of the back. Put her on her knees and have her drop her shoulders to the bed. Insert a few inches of well lubricated penis. Now since your **** is pointed at the small of her back slide in gently.

    IF SHE REPORTS ANY PAIN, FREEZE!

    It will likely pass in a few seconds. If it doesn't, very, very slowly back out.

    Now smile and make her come again and wish her good night.

    If she likes it, settle in slowly to your full length.

    Have her use a vibrator or her fingers on her clit and start to make small movements with your hits.

    Do not surprised if she has a screaming orgasm. They are fairly common with anal sex/clit stimulation.

    Many of my lovers really like anal sex and are very grateful to a man with the patience and grace to do it well. I am hoping you are one of those.

    • Im impressed a step by step guide

    • Nice guide. You sound like all my lovers. The man knowing what to do is just as important as the woman knowing what going on. Kudos!

  • Umm lube dude as far as I know, you gotta make sure you got sum of that. I've spoken to a few girls that do it, some hate it and some don't. I've heard from some girls that it feels awful and that when a guy asks them they say, imagine when your trying to take a dump and it won't come out lol. But I know a doctor that said there is a nerve or something in there where some people can actually get off or something . But I've met about a 50 50 majority that like it and hate it but you definitely need lube for your first attempt

Most Helpful Girls

  • Im a girl and I like it. But there ae some stuff that you should do before. Before you read this, REMEMBER that all girls are different. OK Wear a condom Why? because stuff might get on your thingy and she will most likely get embarrassed. So just wear it to be on the safe side. Next thing, make sure you have some kind of lube. (I usually stick with good ol Vaseline)

    Next thing, GO GENTLE. IM NOT KIDDING. GENTLE. Maybe in the future if your girlfriend likes it you can do it rough but for now. Go gentle (unless asked different) Next thing, depending on your position, for example. uhhhhh Let's say your girl is on her back and you wanna stick in there from that position. Play with her clit while your doing it anal. It just makes it better. Or you can touch other stuff or finger her. So yea. Everything I just wrote is from experience. Everyone is different but those are the things that I made sure of before I did it anal so yea. Good Luck!

  • It takes some getting used to,at first,but after some careful prep work and foreplay she should go for it.Try having her lie on her belly,while you massage her with some oils and lube,then work your fingers down around her butt,and puss,with lube,that will get her relaxed and ready to open up,it works for me!Then just be very gentle when first entering her,and then very slowly,and gradually allow yourself to go in fully,and when you're in her all the way,just pause there and give her a few moments to adjust to you being in there,letting her butt gradually expand,then when you're both ready,then you can begin your thrusting.Take it slow and easy and she will love it.Also,try to pleasure her vag and clit while you're doing anal,it feels great and it keeps her mind on other things,like coming!

  • To answer the main question: Hell yes! Insane pleasure. I can't even describe the orgasms I have from anal sex. It's so kinky and erotic.

    That being said, I must point you in the direction of KNOWLEDGE. Educate yourself and make sure your girlfriend shares in this. Rather write a long step by step how-to on all of the points I will just highly recommend looking up and even buying any of the books or videos by Dr. Tristan Taormino. She is a great teacher and real expert and her stuff is perfect for beginners as well as pros. I especially recommend "The Expert Guide To Anal Sex" on video.

    Enjoy

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  • Your Girl Will Most Likely Get Pleasure From It If You Let Her Ease Onto You At First Until She Gets Comfortable.

    Take It At A Slow Pace Until She Gets The Hang Of It.

    I Would Prefer Vaginal Sex But My Guy Really Likes Anal.

    At First She Will Probably Think She Doesn't Like It.

    I Tried It Once And I Was Like Never Again...

    Then I met A New Guy Who Obviously Took Some Tips From These Guys. And Now It's Pretty Great.

    There Is A Reason That Pornstars Like Getting It In Both Holes At Once...

    So Make Sure To Play With The Front Too.

  • Yes most girls are open to it and if she is letting you do what your already doing then go for it just make sure to use lots of lube and take it slow and easy let her push back on you instead of you pushing on her It does hurt at first but when in she will go wild and come fast

  • i think it is only kinkyness for girls.

  • you must be patient, be well lubbed, and understanding her wants and desires. if she allows fingering then slowing work your way to anal, try more than one finger...i like anal, but its not for everyone.

  • About half the women I have been with liked it as long as they have a vibrator on their clit. I know I sure liked it!

  • nope. not really. it hurts!

  • For me, it hurts like hell and I get absolutely no pleasure out of it.

  • it hurts like a bitch, but it's awesome.

    • Is it really pleasurable to a girl? Would you say it's a better sensation than normal sex?

    • No, I prefer normal sex.

  • I like it BUT it depends on the guy I am with. I have only ever had anal sex with one of my partners, simply because I knew he'd respect the delicate nature of the anus. You have to take your time to relax it - it's not like the vagina - and lube is a must! You can't penetrate it like a vagina either... well not unless she wants it really rough but to be honest unless the girl is a pro I wouldn't recommend it! It does take some time to go back to "normal" afterwards! It's just a different sensation totally...

    • "I knew he'd respect the delicate nature of the anus." lol I can't stop laughing when I read that! :P But yeah, you have to ease it in, use plenty of lube and actually using fingers first to loosen it up helps out a lot too :P

    • Haha I'm glad it got a laugh!! I don't know how else to phrase it...