I only do anything at all because I want to, it includes having sex, buying gifts, talking on the phone, accepting gifts, or even looking a guys way or acknowledging his existance. LOL. I'm from a different time where women know that they run things. It seems that a lot of young women don't know how much power they have or are weak and give things away when people don't deserve it or haven't done anything to earn it.
If I'm not treated well, I don't reward bad behavior. Being high maintenance keeps you from accepting junk and being manipulated by pressure.
If you are a virgin, tell a guy after he gets to know you and likes you. If he's not going to get it he doesn't need to know until you start becoming serious. You get to see his character and he won't try to take your virginity as a challenge. Virginity is not a challenge it is a personal decision by the person who matters most, YOU! If he's shallow you won't make the mistake of wasting your time.
Being a woman means that you don't have to do anything that you don't want to do until you want to do it. Also being a woman means that you can change your mind whenever you get ready LOL. Don't have sex because a guy wants to have sex, do it because you want to do it selfishly. You don't want to be the person who regrets having sex because the guy turned out to be a jerk or was not attentive to your needs.0 0 0 0I must admit, I've had sex with my boy friend even if I wasn't in the mood. It was only a few times. I feel bad when I get him going and then leave him hanging = / But other than that, I usually ave sex because it's what I want as well as what he wants.
My first time I thought I was pretty much in love. And I was ready, not pressured what so ever.0 1 0 0I personally don't like sex. Fore-play is great but the sex always sucks. I have sex to please the boyfriend and fake it all the time. He's been on this mission to give me an orgasm but I just have the heart to tell him he's not good in bed.
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My last girlfriend was very physical but then kept backing out at the last minute. I finally got fed up with it and asked what the deal was, and she told me she was a virgin and scared.
I didn't really understand why she wouldn't have told me straight away. After she did tell me we talked about it and ended up having sex about 4 weeks later.
Because she told me, I was able to take things slower and re-assure her and she had a much better time then if I had gone at it thinking she had the experience I had.1 1 0 1You are supposed to have sex because you want to and because you wish to share pleasure with your partner. The fear that women have when telling their man that they are virgins is not a major issue as most men would not leave her or think of her differently. For a man not to want sex with their woman is ludicrous unless they are highly religious. Go ahead and tell your man about your sexual status. If he doesn`t like it, go find someone else who is more secure about your sexuality.and theirs.
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4 1i lost my virginity because I was pressured into it. but with my current boyfriend I have sex for myself but I always think about his needs too.
0 0 0 0no I did it for me yeah granted he wanted it but it was mainly because I did because he didn't want to push me too far
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Some women have sex because they want to and some have sex because they think they have to. I prefer the former and avoid the latter.1 0 0 0my first was to satisfy my boyfriend at the time.
but I did want it0 0 0 0the more I have sex, the more I want it. the first time I have sex, it was because my boyfriend kind of pressuring me. but now since I'm used to it. I am actually learning to love it. and of course.its good for him too
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