Do girls have to really open their legs..

Really wide just to have sex..? Is it enough to just spread it out a little with my legs flat on e bed? Cause in p*rn and all it's different I know it's a weird qn but I'm a bit curious as I'm about to have sex with my soon to be husband. And I'm a little shy about these things..
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  • If your worried about him seeing you down there then you shouldn't worry about it. Once he is inside you, your legs will kind of be wrapped around his back pretty tight. It goes so fast that he won't even really see you for more then a second. If its your first time then I suggest that you do open your legs because it will make you more relaxed and you won't be holding your muscles very tight. You can always ask to have the lights off for the first time until you feel comfortable. It will also come naturally to you once you guys have sex so do what makes you comfortable.

  • It's not really necessary, no, there are plenty of positions that don't require you to technically 'open your legs' at all, haha. If it's your first time though, the wider you spread, the more it opens you up, and while you might feel embarrassed, it will be more comfortable for you physically. But what you describes doesn't sound very fun. It sounds like you'd just be laying there motionless. Don't let your insecurities get in the way of you enjoying yourself.

  • no you don't have to open them really wide to have sex. I've had sex before with my legs pressed together. you just have to find the right angle and position. generally though if you haven't had sex before, missionary style is the easiest I would say. and in that case you have to open your legs so he can get his hips between them.

  • You're shy with your husband? Hmmm

    You can open wide, yes. That's nice. And once he's in, close em up & let him spread em wide over yours. That's really nice. A great sensation. Try it, you'll like it.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I would say that you do not have to spread them real wide for intercourse...when I am giving her oral, tho, I like to lift her legs up, bending her knees and placing her feet on my shoulders...so..in effect...I have her ankles on either side of my head...

  • In p*rn that is just to get a view of the vagina.

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  • The sex in p*rn is for the camera. You can do whatever works.

  • If you want to allow deep penetration (or if he's not exceptionally long) you'll need to position your legs such that he can get his hips close to your vagina.

    This can generally be accomplished by spreading your legs wide, OR by pulling your knees up towards your chest. Or some combination of the two.

  • Very erotic when a woman spreads her legs.. It doesn't matter if they are hairy or not, and my equipment is average, and equally hairy... lol..^o^

  • Just let it be natural don't try to be something your not and you will be fine

  • you just have to be wide enough for your guy to thrust perfectly

  • I like woman to spread their legs open so I can get deep in side of them and also when I go down on them!

  • I know boys can't do it.. but we can somehow spread it wife.. maybe because of our hips structure

    It is not necessary to open legs wide apart.. but doing so serves just a visual appeal more than anything else

    It means that we're inviting the guy between our legs.. and are ready to take it in.. a sign of visual erotic thoughts... Also spreading legs.. let the internal muscles spread out

    so just do it don't be afraid... No one's gonna laugh.. if they have a visual they'll be considerate in the first thrust... They'll go slowly and lovingly