LOL why do you bother asking, if you already seem to have made up your mind what women as a whole are like?
I disagree with your first statements, because they simply aren't true for me. I have a high sex drive and want sex regularly, even more often than some guys I've been with. I masturbate at least a couple times a week, but more often lately. I say lately because my boyfriend is rarely able to get a babysitter for his four year old son, and they share a room at the moment, we have to take him everywhere with us, so it's rare that we get opportunities to get busy like we BOTH want to. It's been driving us both nuts, we're extremely sexually frustrated right now. I probably whine about it more than he does, lol. SO I masturbate more lately than normal, because normally I feel sexually satisfied by the amount and manner of sex with my partner, and don't feel the need to. I have sex because I like sex. I also of course enjoy the intimacy and bonding with my partner, but that's not the sole reason that I choose to have sex.
So, I actually have a LOT of sexual desire, I think about it all the time, and I'm not the only woman like that. To think so is completely ridiculous. Some women have little to no sex drive, but you can hardly consider them the majority. The general opinion of women [in society] is mostly still that they should be less sexual and are viewed negatively if they are open about being a sexual being, yet at the same time are paradoxically undesirable if they don't 'put out' as much as people would like. I control it and overcome it LATELY because it's simply not an option in my relationship most of the time lately. But when circumstances allow it to be readily available, I'm all over it. I don't shy away just because some people think I 'should' as a woman have lower desire for sex. It's simply not the case, lol. I tend to want sex extremely often within my relationships, but I'm also not opposed to casual sex and still have sex [with one person, who the person is will vary between relationships] when I'm single. The only reason it's less often when single is because we're not together, so obviously we don't spend as much time together in intimate situations.
Some men have lower sex drives as well. I've been with men who wanted sex less often than I did, who turned me down on several occasions, whereas I never turned down their advances unless I was sick, or there was literally no time for it before an obligation. Otherwise I always wanted to, or got in the mood to as soon as it was even brought up.
Wow, never knew some women are so much sexual! Good thing.
Yep! Just keep your eyes open, lol. We're out there.
How ignorant of you to make statements on behalf of all women, especially when you aren't even a woman yourself...
I would definitely have to disagree with all of your statements. Women can have just as high a sex drive as men, maybe even more, which in turn causes them to masturbate more often. And although I am a virgin, my boyfriend doesn't depend on sex as the basis of our relationship, and nor do I. And to answer your question, it varies. Some girls may have a low libido and still have sex while some may have a very high one and choose to overcome it (such as myself). It all depends on the individual.
I have to disagree. I think maybe the age of the women might have something to do with her sex drive. I have a very strong sex drive and want to submit.
1. Sex drives vary in women, just like they do with men.
2. Single women often have a much lower sex drive than single men. This is because for many/most women, their arousal and sex drive is very closely tied to their feelings and emotional connection. They can see a guy and think "he's hot", but if they don't have feelings for him, it doesn't necessarily become sexual for them.
3. Women in relationships have, on average, very similar sex drives as men do, UNLESS the relationship isn't healthy, meaning, if the trust is broken, or if she's feeling neglected or unappreciated.
In my experience, girls in healthy relationships that feel safe and secure in those relationships have insatiable sex drives, because within such a relationship, most of her insecurities and inhibitions are stripped away, and she can be free to be what she wants to be.
Some of the girls I've been with, including the current one, were indifferent at best about sex, even with their boyfriends, because the relationships weren't stable and healthy, and/or because the guy just didn't care much about her. The sex was mediocre to awful as a result, and the girls weren't anxious for more.
In my relationships, I insist on openness and honesty, and I give my girl respect and attention, and I've never had a "low sex drive" problem with any of them, just the opposite. There's been times I've had to slow them down a bit.
You may not think it's cool to respect your girl, or to pay attention to her, or to be honest with her, but don't think they won't know how you feel about them. Even the dumb ones are better at relationships and reading people than you (or any guy) can, so they're just going to reflect back to you the way you treat them.
If sex is an issue for you and the girls you've been with, then this probably applies to you, and if it does, maybe that's something you should think about.
You mean MOST girls want a lot of sex in a healthy and respectful relationship? And if single , then they have minimal sex drive and don't even masturbate?
In my experience, yes. If the girl feels good and secure in her relationship, she'll be horny, A LOT, when around her man. And while singler girls don't completely shut down (usually), their sex drives tend to be far lower than when they're in a relationship. They may masturbate, but they still don't have the DESIRE for actual sex like they do in a relationship. Yes, there are exceptions, and we've all met them, but I'm giving you a more typical experience.
Your answer sounds good and practical. I would try and observe it. Does it mean if a girl avoids sex or is not much excited by sex with a man it can be said that she is not really happy, secure, satisfied and connected with that man?
Some women AND men are like this.
I'm fairly certain its more common in women, but not unheard of in men.
On the other extreme, I'd suggest more women then men want sex 3 or more times a day.
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Why, anything wrong with the information? Its my experience! And a FACT.
well if it's your experience, obviously it must be a fact, right. Clearly YOUR EXPERIENCE gives you the authority to make pronouncements and call them fact.
What? Are you kidding me? I am horny all the time! I masturbate up to 4 times a day.
My sex drive is only evident when I am in a relationship. I'd assume t varies from woman to woman like men
Without relationship you don't get sexual urge? No masturbation?
I do not masturbate.
No urge /not aroused or you have self control?
Think it's going to depend on the person. Of course, you're asking this in a sexuality forum, so you may get skewed results.
I masturbate daily. Have sex almost daily and have a bigger sex drive than my boyfriend. All of your statements are false.
Even when you have sex daily you still need to masturbate? Wow, your boyfriend is a lucky dude!
No, he gets annoyed with me I think.
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