Do girls like to know we fantasize about them?

[Anonymous]

I was speaking with my girl friend a few days ago about when we first saw each other before we talked and when we were just starting to talk to each other and she asked me if id ever had thought about her sexually or even had fantasies about her, and obviously I did so I told her I had. Now she has been kind of pressing at me to tell her what the sort of fantasies were and what I imagined happening because she says it will turn her on. Do you women out there like to know your boyfriend had fantasies or ideas of what he'd like or imagine you doing before you went out?

[fatalkaiser]

Yes, deifnitely. I did this to my boyfriend as well. He was hesitant to tell me at first; he would say 'i don't want you to think I'm a pervert'.

Dont worry about it. If she wants to know, tell her (if your comfortable with it) its definitely a turn on. Plus its an ego boost for us. It shows us how desireable we are to you, and that makes us more confident, which is good for you, because the more confident we are, the more likely we are to put out.

[gravygirl]

Hell yeah. I loved it when my boyfriend told me (way after the fact) that he jerked off immediately after a long phone call we had when we were still just friends. I thought that was really hot. He's got a couple stories along those lines and I love to hear them.

[Anonymous]

i as a matter of fact would like to know!

it makes us gurls feel loved and it shows in a way you care for us and love us. :D

i would thnk that its the same as a gurl telling thier boyfriend they masturbate if you get my point.

[nicxrock]

personally, yeah.

i would wanna know

[cranberygrl]

I think it'd be cool to know. And once you share them, she has the power to turn them into reality depending on what kind of girlfriend she is.