Do girls often get wet just looking or thinking of a guy they lust for?

A guy can obviously get hard looking at a hot girl or thinking of a girl he is attracted to without touching himself. So do girls often wet their panties just looking at a guy they want to do or thinking about a guy/any guy they want without touching themselves at all?
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  • Again, as already mentioned here, i cannot speak on behalf of all the girls & women but can certainly tell you from personal experience that i have not got turned by just liking a man... that means not really being attracted to them & just liking them as a person...

    However, in the past i became close to a guy friend i had. Though things never proceeded further than a kiss with him... but everytime he held my hand or i could feel his breath on my face or his manly smell or whilst we kissed... i would feel myself getting very wet down below... to the point i wouldn't be able to walk properly & would need to go to the bathroom to wash myself. That was many years ago and i was young, about 21 so im assuming it was my bodies way of responding to the proximity of the opposite gender and wanting to engage in further activity.

    However, about 5 months ago i joined a course in which i have noticed the male teacher has been displaying a lot of interest in me. Though he's much older and not terribly good looking... the power trip of his maturity, his wisdom, his knowledge, his masculinity has been very exhilarating for me. He displayed a sign of affection towards me (after i gave him a thank you card for his help) by slowly planting a kiss on my forehead & cheek all the time with his hands cupped around my jaw /face... he looking into my eyes whilst holding onto my face but i politely pulled back. Just thinking about this, the way he smiles at me, the way he looks at me has been driving me insane lately. Any quiet moment i drift off thinking about him and i have been getting very very wet down below just imagining him being close to me or holding me in his arms. It was actually quite bewildering for me after i realised how badly wet i was getting just thinking about someone. I'm not even sexually thinking about him... it's just him as a person and how he behaves towards me and his affection which is making it difficult for me down below ! It's my constant thoughts about him which are leading me to being intensely attracted to him & making my body respond in this way.

    • I write books about teen romance (in addition to their other challenges). Your comments are helpful and verify some of the content in my books. Thank you. Josesaco

  • im by far attracted more to a guys personality and the way in which he acts, rather than how he looks. if I don't know the guy I don't get wet just looking at him, physical attraction alone isn't enough. if I know he's got substance and know a bit about him, and I find him physically attractive too, then its possible my panties might get wet! lol. I think because I would not have sex with someone for purely physical reasons. emotions and feelings mean a lot to me and its the emotional connection which is far more or a turn on. I want to have sex with them because I like them, not: I want to like them because I find them really attractive and want sex with them.

    • Good answer, are all girls in general like that. They want to have sex with a guy because of how they feel for him and because of emotion. You put that well. What personality traits are most important do you think for that girl to feel that connection to want to have sex with a dude anyway?

    • ooh tought question. I would never try to speak on behalf of the female population as a whole though! I think overall, yes girls are much more emotional beings, ruled more by them than physical attraction, and I would say guys are the opposite. but always exceptions to rules. some girls are fine with casual hook ups, friends with benefits arrangements, etc. personally I take the view that my body is my temple and therefore I always choose carefully who I let in.. ie. physical attraction alone doesn't qualify.

    • personality: I like to feel that they have some genuine affection for me & if I get the feeling the want purely sexual relationship I tend to back off. again speaking for me.. I think about how caring he is & how he treats other people in general. someone who is able to make decisions and show they are capable to make the first move. I think its really important that the guy gives the impression he's got a gentle side yet not weak. .make her feel safe & relaxed.. tough question lol

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  • Not speaking for all women. But some can.

    I am personally sitting thinking of a guy I'm interested in. He hits most of my 'bigger' check-marks; big/broad, confident, mature, playful persona, and so far honest. A few hours ago we had a small conversation. Some flirting. Nothing excessive or explicit. Nothing to get 'excited' about.

    But I get quite wet thinking of him. It can be a bit embarrassing sitting at the computer at work & getting well 'heated'.