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Do girls really have rape fantasies!!

I'm all for role playing it's just... this girl said she wanted a rape fantasy..and it got me wondering how many of you girls have this fantasy or any other kind of dark fantasies...
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so let me get this straight a girl, likes to be dominated as in , pushed around a little, spanked, chocked, a forced BJ..ripping her clothes off, I mean where is the line drawn
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So until she says the "safe word", it's a no-holds-barred fantasy... excuse me but I spent most of my life karate training and the number one rule is to never ever ever ever get violent with a woman...don't get me wrong I could beat a guy 2 times my size to few inches of his death.. but I can't get violent with my girl..
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  • It all depends on the trust level you have. The line is drawn as soon as you don't trust the guy to listen to you when you want him to stop. Most couples will have a cue word that means its enough, because as you are playing out a fantasy words like stop or its enough are usually within the context so a different word is usually helful, so the guy knows, its gone far enough.

  • I think girls are confusing rape with being dominated while role playing and liking the guy to be in control, I don't think that has anything to do with rape. Actually, rape has nothing to do with sex. I think the whole rape fantasy is used for a lack of a better word, rape is nothing to fantasize about.

    • The better word is forced sex fantasy.

    • I like that. Thanks

  • Truth is, it is just a *fantasy.* I think when a girl has a rape fantasy, it's more of a dominance and submission fantasy rather than anything else. I know I've felt the desire to be dominated over etc. . . But rape itself is very traumatic and not something to be fantasized.

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  • Wow,I think this is kinda weird. I mean I understand being dominated but saying or using the word rape just makes it sound wrong.

    • As you can see from the answers, most of them agree with you. What they are essentially craving, is for their man to be a traditional man. Aggressive, domineering, powerful. Not a new-agey touchy feely girlie "nice" guy. Many women will get turned on by the idea that she is so sexy, that her partner just *has* to have her right now, and won't take no for an answer. It's not exactly rape, in the traditional understanding of the word.

    • So they don't want to "make love" but have rough hard sex?

    • Rough, sometimes, yes. We are women, but we're not all as fragile as many women "come off." I guess for some it's out of the norm and gives them a rush.. but some of us like it more often. As long as I feel safe and trusting of the person I'm with (I would sleep with anyone otherwise) I like a little aggression... often.

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  • I have fantasies, but not that dark. :-/

  • Yes, and I enjoy roleplaying it with my partner.

  • YES! (: Being dominated by my boyfriend is the best feeling in the world!

    • Hey, as long as being turned on is the primary feeling, pain is the second, and I'm still conscience...everything is alright with me. (:

  • your computer is high lol jk but uhm, personally I like being forced down, kissed\licked on, spanked, wrestled with clothes ripping off.. I don't know about forced bj's or sex tho .. & there is a HUGE diff between getting violent and getting dominated\fistey ;) since you are karate trained don't be so rough and if she literally yells stop .. STOP! (you know what is too bad&what your capable of)

  • Not gonna lie , I love it when my Boyfriend takes me down :) even if I don't want it .. to mee its being dominated or handled:) (kinda like your being raped, but not literally)

    • Love ❤️ it if I know I'm not in the mood a couple of shots send some signals to him after he's done just laying with that feeling 🙃

  • I do :$

  • Gonna have to agree with most of the ladies on here. I think it's more of an aggressive-type fantasy. Because we trust the man to be rough with us, but we know he'd never hurt us.. kind of thing. Rape, never. That's terrifying.

  • I think there's something wrong with your computer..

    • it has a mind on it's own

  • Guilty. We call it a "rape" fantasy but it's more of a "forced sex" one. We like to see the guy all masculine like and taking/doing whatever he wants. My boyfriend said we'd try it but he won't say when. The suspense is killing me!

    • The line is drawn when she says the safe word.

    • Well, whenever it comes to sex, you're supposed to talk to your partner about it. You need to set your limits ahead of time. Say what's bad and good. Maybe scratching is kinky, but taking skin with you is bad.

  • i wouldn't say rape, I would say dominated

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