Do girls want to take a guys virginity?

if a guy was a virgin at any age, would you be more exited to take his virginity? would it not matter? would age sometimes be a problem?...and if so at what age would it be a problem? would how long he lasted be important?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Generally speaking, no.

    Isn't that strange? How many experienced guys would balk at the thought of sleeping with a willing virgin that they loved? Almost none.

    Yet, completely experienced girls seemed to be off-put by virgin guys (at least the ones who want to admit it). Guys are generally leads (alphas), and girls usually REACT to whatever the leader does. When it comes to taking the lead role in the bedroom (experienced girl vs virgin guy), the sequence of interaction is reversed and girls are uncomfortable with their new role as leader.

    This is generally speaking, there are plenty of women that know how to lead obviously.

    • Lol where are you making these assumptions from? Anyone can want at virgin regardless of their gender.

  • i lost my virginity to a girl who I talked to 10 minutes prior and bet her that she couldn't beat me in a game of scrabble. The stakes were high, If I won then well.. we ended up in the back of my dads hummer and . Funny thing was, I was 17. I held out for a while, I was one of the last to lose it out of my friends. & she was 5 years older than me. Pretty amazing story.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I guess my answer may be different because I'm a virgin myself but I'll be happy when my boyfriend and I take each others' virginity. I'm glad that he'll be my first because I know we really love each other and I think it will be better because of that. :)

  • nawh, imnot a virgan and I've had sex with two difrent guys who wernt virgans but I woudlnt want to take a virginity, id be scared they woudl fall for me * cause some people fall for their first *

  • I wouldn't want to, I almost dated a virgin but I just didn't want the responsibility of being someones first. I've never felt experienced enough to do something like that

    • why? there is not really any responsibility and the virgin probably feels less experienced then you.

    • im sure he does but there's a lot of pressure on me, the non virgin to know what I'm doing and make his first time something special and I don't think id be able to

    • well if someone has not even had sex yet. they wouldn't kno how great sex can get. the first time doesn't have to be that great. just let him do what he thinks is right. give him a couple pointers and that's it. as long as your not just going to diss on him or anything if he does mess up some how

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  • Yes, I'd love to.

  • nope... not me at least. I am a virgin and I wouldn't want someone who doesn't know what they are doing

  • I'd guess they'd rather have experience...except for girls who are virgins themselves and want to share that with another virgin.

    • two virgins don't really meet that often, let alone get in a relationship with one...i wish I could find one

  • I don't think so.. most girls want an experienced guy

  • I would love to take a guys virginity. probably not more than 2-3 years younger and older doesn't matter. well if his first time he probably won't last that long.

  • Sadly no, because they either don't want inexperienced men, or doesn't want to take responsibility of being the first, they think we want it to be special with fireworks and stuff maybe...

  • Since I'm one too id want him to be a virgin

  • for me I like experienced guys way better its so much better because guys who don't no what thay are doing are just akwerd in bed I think

    • even if he's a great good looking guy?

  • it doesn't make a difference

  • I think girls want a guy who is experienced that knows how to please them. Sex is an art and it takes time to get good. Considering your age category, I don't think as many girls would really care. But I'll tell you first time sex is the worst because it lasts about 30 seconds and the girl will get not pleasure.

    I think once you get past 20 it may get a little weird