You have the body of a mature woman, even though you are 16, and you are tan, blond, and blue-eyed, which many people (men and women) think of as the "ultimate sex object" type of woman. So, sure, lots of guys are going to think of you that way. They are mostly immature guys, even if they are actually older.
What you'll find is that there are guys out there who actually want to get to know you, but they are shy or feel like they aren't good enough for a beautiful girl like you and are intimidated. See the movie "She's Out Of My League" and you'll get some idea. Most of the nicer guys would never hit on you or even talk to you, assuming that you'd just laugh at them and humiliate them, because they've had it happen or seen it happen with other pretty girls. But if you want a guy who is going to care about you more than about himself, those are the guys to look for.
At your age, and even well into college age, the "cool" guys are "cool" because they put themselves first, and are very confident. The problem is that doesn't change, or at least, no for very long, when they get into a relationship. Everything is about them, and if you don't give them what they want, they'll drop you and move on to someone who will.
So, take a look at the shy or geeky guys. You'll have to make the first move (i.e., talk to them), and maybe the first few moves, because they won't believe you really like them, but they'll be much better for you in the long run.0 1 0 0They only want to hook up with you because you're 16 and you have big t*ts. I remember when I was that age, and I was interested in love but far more interested in sex.
It also matters how you dress, because with your body if you reveal a lot of cleavage or wear short skirts then yeah, you'd definitely give off that vibe.0 0 0 0its not even guys my age, it's older guys that probably don't know I'm 16
then yes... if it's older guys that are interested in you and you're 16, it ain't for your personality
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Its a teenage guy thing. Wait until you are in your 20s and they will be talking to you everywhere when they are worried about having to find a wife :P
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1 2You're hot and you have big t!ts. You're going to attract a lot of attention because of that. Almost all guys would want to hook up with you. But just because a guy wants to hook up with you doesn't mean he HAS to be a bad guy. Plenty of good guys will also want relationships with you, but they will ALSO want to hook up.
The world is not divided between skeezy guys who want to hook up with you and nice guys who want a relationship with no hooking up. Almost all straight guys will want to hook up with you regardless of whether or not they want a relationship too.0 0 0 0the right guy just hasn't met you yet. hold your horses and stop jumping to conclusions. your 16, stay young as long as you can
0 0 0 0yea kinda ..you do .
1 0 0 0but why? what am I doing that gives off a slutty vibe?
you just look like one , its hard to explain ...don't worry about it if you aren't one. There is nothing you can do about it.
Well, that's gonna help her. And I disagree, you don't seem slutty to me. Guys were like that when I was 16. A lot of them still are.
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