Do guys actually get boners just from seeing attractive girls?

For example, if you're in a mall and you happen to see a really attractive girl walk by...is that enough to give you a boner? Also is that something you would ever jack off to later?
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  • Although my teen years are way behind me, I still get aroused by the sight of attractive women. I am a swimmer who swims laps at the YMCA several days a week. When nice-looking or well built women occasionally swim in the lane next to me, I get a boner and cannot exit the pool until I get things under control.

    I also take daily walks that take me down a busy stretch of highway where cars get backed up at a traffic light. I become visually stimulated when I see women sitting in the front passenger seat or behind the steering wheel, with the seat belt passing diagonally between their breasts. I'm not sure why? Maybe it's just sexually suggestive to me. The same thing happens when I see the strap on a woman's shoulder bag passing between her breasts. I've had more than one embarrassing boner moment in stores and supermarkets and have to cover my bulge.

    To answer your last question, I often do jack off later when I remember the visual delights I encountered earlier in the day. I admit to being highly sexual, but I am pretty much a normal guy, with a girlfriend and a healthy sex life. I can't help how I react to things.

    Bless you women for making us men feel so good every day.

    • Did you have a boner when you noticed random women with revealing clothes out on the streets.. while you were in a relationship? does that boner thing continue even when you're in a relationship?

  • For guys, part of what goes into our sex drive is NOVELTY. The same stimuli eventually loses its affect on us, and we get bored. This explains why men with really hot girlfriends still end up cheating on them or wanting to find someone else. Men will typically get bored of the same thing, and kind of explains why long-term relationships aren't built entirely around a girls' appearance.

    It also explains why some men who are "addicted" to p*rn end up spending a lot of money on it. The same stimuli no longer excites him, so he spends money to buy more stimuli in the hopes of exciting him at the same levels as before.

    A guy who is really perverted is isn't excited very easily because he's been exposed to quite a bit. His tastes go toward weird things because the same old things no longer excite him.

    Someone who would just get a boner from the site of a pretty girl is some one who isn't exposed to hot girls very often. He's likely a little kid if that's the case. Also, I don't know how likely it is that he'd jack off to the thought of you later on, but it does depend on what kinds of things that he's used to and what it normally takes for him to become aroused.

    • I do want to point out that I don't think that it's been proven if a guy who is into "weird things" is into them because of his exposure to p*rn. Paraphilias that some people might have could be the result of anything. Similar to homosexuals, the cause of a paraphilia could be biological.

    • That makes sense it's kind of like when people drink they build up a tolerance to the same amounts of liquor so they have to keep ramping it up more and more to actually get the same buzz that they did originally.

    • It's not just about tolerance. It's about new stimuli. The guy doesn't necessarily have to have more p*rn than just new p*rn to have the same effect on him. It's really more like eating the same food every day. It gets the job done, but it gets boring after a while and you want to try something new.

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  • It *normally* doesn't (unless you're in your early teens), but in some instances, it *can*, at least for some men.

    Guys run across a wide range of reactions. Some guys get erections very easily from almost nothing, and some guys have to be touched to get an erection. Most are in the middle somewhere.

    And most guys, by the time they hit their late teens or early 20s, have control and in most cases can prevent themselves from relaxing enough to get an erection if they don't want to have one, but there could be a time when a guy wasn't really paying attention, and was kind of relaxed and wasn't actively controlling himself, and suddenly there's a hot girl walking by, and he sees her boobs jiggling or her ass wiggling and an erection just kind of sneaks up on him. Most guys experience that from time to time, but it's the exception rather than the rule.

    • The only time that I ever had an embarrassing boner in public was when I fell asleep in class, and I had to get up, but I had a sleep erection. Maybe I have something wrong with me if just seeing a hot girl doesn't get me aroused?

    • As I said, the majority of the time, a guy (past his early teens/puberty) is in control. It's only that rare occasion where you release that control, AND you see a girl and for whatever reason she looks REALLY hot, that it might happen. But, you may be one of those guys on the lower end of the scale, too, who needs direct stimulation.

  • I don't get an erection from anything besides physical stimulation.

  • Maybe when I was younger but now... no and no.

    • ^this.

  • No and no.

  • Guys can get boners from a slight change in wind direction.

  • If she got nice curves - thick thighs/wide hips/slim waist/big boobs - then yes, of course!

    But... many girls don't have such bodies, so what else can make a girl 'attractive' is: getting her hair done, wearing nice clothes and putting on make-up.

    It makes them look good, yes - but if they don't have such body, looking at them won't make me hard.

  • unless I have to pee or something, its rare for me to get hard just by looking at someone.

  • Lol you think men are sex machines, its myth that men are more visual than women. Cuz no it never happened to me

  • Um, I'm 26. I do get a boner if I see a woman I REALLY like. But she must be special. If I see an attractive woman, I'm not gonna get hard. However if it is a woman I actually like/adore, and I see her vibing or doing her thing... yes rock hard. I personally wouldn't jack off later though, not to that. Porn is my choice if I MUST. However I think being more moderate than flagrant with masturbation has its perks.

  • Absolutely not. Most guys aren't like that.

    For one, I doubt that guys really do jack off to the memory of some random girl that they saw that day - even if she was really pretty. Most of us just rely on p*rn, which has a lot more in it, instead.

    For many guys, just an image of a pretty girl isn't normally something that a guy will have a boner over. Many times, it's not enough for them to keep an erection even if they're physically stimulating themselves.

    You're probably a little girl, so I can understand why you would ask this. But, straight up, guys seriously aren't like that. You might be surprised what it takes to keep a guy interested - even if he's under-sexed.

    • Speak for yourself.

    • @calialltheway1993: What do you mean?