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Do guys become attached to a girl after making out and foreplay?
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Would he develop feelings for me if I made out with him and touched him and let him touch me? I want to massage his reproductive organs and get in the shower with him.
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1 2The outcome of these actions aren't really determined by the actions but rather by the guy and his need to get "attached" as it were. Some men are pretty superficial, and the opportunity to take a sensual shower with a hot sexual woman is a great way to fulfill a wonderful fantasy, not necessarily start a relationship. However, if the guy you are talking about is a close friend that you have been flirting with for sometime, and you finally seduce him in the shower with a variety of sexual acts, then it is possible that it could cause him to desire that next level of commitment.
There is the occasion that you are also so good at your "massaging of his reproductive organs", that any man would melt in your hands and want to make you his concubine for ever.LOL.
Okay, I read your whole exchange with John-Bee down there, and the whole story is weird. And who says "I want to massage his reproductive organs?" WTF is that? Also, the whole rejected by 300 girls thing is odd. So I'm thinking either you're a guy who thinks this is hot for some reason, or you're a really mixed up girl. Get help.
What she said ^ lol! I was gonna reply but gravygirl worded it perfectly lol
Attached" in what way? If you mean will he like you more if you do all that, well yes as a piece of meat possibly. Does he like you now? How long have you two been going out? It's a great fantasy BUT just be careful that he just doesn't want "it" and not you. If that's all you want then go for it!
Well he's been rejected by 300 girls and has asked out every single female that he's ever met. I just want to know if you can to a man's heart through physical contact. He cares deeply about the welfare of every stranger he meets.. and does take responsibility.
Hmmm..... WOW 1st thing that comes to mind is how in the world can he be rejected by so many girls? Is there something wrong with him that you don'r know about? You speak very positively about him! That doesn't matter because you like him & that's all that counts. I can only say that I like when a girl touches my arm,shoulder,my hair & kind of pokes me when she is teasing me. Now the physical contact that your talking about how quickly do you want to do that? He's probably a virgin right?......
So you don't wan't to make him nervous & scare him away. You just a bit older so a long wait to do it in my eyes isn't too important. Can you get to his heart..... Well I'm sure he will probably fall in love with you because you are kind to him & he has been rejected alot. Take a little time start out a bit slower than you usually do be careful & see what happens. Good Luck. Submit another comment or click on my avatar to send me a message if you have more quetions or if I didn't help
Well he invited me to get in the shower with him so yeah he's ready for anything. He won't have sex with me because I'm a virgin... but he wants to do everything short of penetration...
Now that's up to you. Again in my eyes I don't see anything wrong with doing any of that. I have always respected girls wishes. If all they wanted was "play" & no sex than fine. I'm now a lot curious as to how a guy that's been rejected so many times is so forward so quickly?? How do you feel about that? Have you known him long enough as a friend to trust that's all he wants to do? Now I'm a little scared that he is so forward. Help me with that.
Well he's a lot better looking than me... and he knows I've liked him for a long time... because when we first met up it was always me calling him, he never called me. Basically it starts like this a) we were friends... I did something to piss him off b) He has a bad impression of me and doesn't want anything to do with me c) I try so many times to get in contact with him and he ignores me time and time again d) He gives in and agrees to hang out with me because I keep trying
Sorry I'm still worried. Friends sometimes piss each other off. That happens. We apalogize & try to go back to the way we were. I don't like the ignoring part after you made attempts to reconsile your friendship. He gives in & now it's like O.K. were friends take a shower with me?? Seems a lot strange to me. I'm still stuck on a guy that gets rejected like that & then his true friend he ingnores than all of the sudden lets take a shower. I don't know let your concious be your guide here........
Don't you have any other friends or is it just that you like his qualities that he truley cares deeply about the welfare of strangers but yet after you pissed him off he ignores you but cares more about strangers???
Lol... I'm confused myself now. I don't have any other friends... I don't conform to social norms and some loser thought it would be fun to spread nasty rumours about me. Now everybody's avoiding me. He had no social status when I befriended him, and then in front of other people I acted like our first conversation never happened. I did this to dissassociate myself from an uncomfortable situation but he (misunderstood) thought I was ashamed of him... then I made all of his friends hate me.
I assume at this point that he REALY DOES UNDERSTAND that these were just nasty rumors spread about you. Has he told his friends a brief explination of what happened and that you two are cool now? I hope so because there is nothing wrong with his friends becoming your friends. As far as the shower goes that's up to you if you want to do it & you trust him then go for it. I hope that everything turns out SAFE & well. Text him or e mail him saying something like I've got to take a shower R You IN?