Do guys become more attached after physical contact?

The guy I'm dating is not officially my boyfriend but we've been discussing whether or not we're going to take things to that level. We finally made out several times this past week and it was fairly intense. Since then he seems so much more interested and he texts a lot more. Is he just turned on by the physical or did the physical give him a deeper feeling of connection with me?
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  • I think this is a very good question, I've thought about this too as well.

    I know that I have fallen for a girl for physicality instead of emotionally. I can say it really did cloud my judgement. I thought I loved her but it was lust, after she graduated to go to college I was still in High School with 2 years left and I had no problem with her going away and leaving. In fact, I wasn't even sad. I was pretty much relieved she was gone because it had become a problem with just the physical instead of emotional.

    I think this guy you are with, I think you make him "Excited" if you have intense making out sessions.. like you said. Haha, but do not worry. I mean, intense deep making out sessions can normally lead to deep emotional connection, if you have like. sweet romance talk and then begin the kissing.

    Both Guys and Girls can become attached from physical contact, but what kills most in the end is emotional feelings rather than physical. It took me almost 2 years to get over my last girlfriend and we only had physical contact like 3 or 4 times, every thing else we had was talk and emotional connection, I can tell you it really sucked and all I wanted was to rebound and have physical play instead of the emotional.

    Just enjoy every moment you have with this guy, he could really become something to you, just watch his behavior as you both progress in your " deep moments". If he becomes more aggressive with his hands going in certain areas, you may have to tell him to slow down if you aren't comfortable with it. If he really seems to be falling for you, he'll go out his way for you, and when I mean go out his way, I mean he'll wake up at 6 am to just get you breakfast in bed and wait for you to wake up at 7 or something. Things like that can have a person really show they are in for the real thing and not just something short term.

    Sorry for such a long post, just thought I be as thoughtful and honest. I know what its like to be in your spot!

    Good luck.

  • Sex causes a chemical flow, which causes bonding among the partners. I always feel closer (sometimes too close) after sex!

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  • getting intimate really changes things, theyre more interested because there is the potential for sex but I think it does have a deeper emotional connection because your taking your relationship to the next level in a way because you are becoming closer. I think both he is interested in the sexual aspect but I think its a deeper connection because he is comfortable enough with you now to become physical with u.

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  • deeper feeling of connection.

  • Its a 2 tier answer. Men can detach their emotions from sexual activity. But when we don't, then it's true that sexual activity is how we get more attached.

    • This.