Do guys care if a girl's eyes start to tear up when she is giving him a blow job?

I can go for a pretty long time but every time he pushes on my head to go down all the way my eyes tear up and I feel he thinks I'm weak for not being able to do it yet without tearing up.
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  • There are places a guy can put his hands when he is receiving oral sex that are generally accepted. Pretty much anywhere but when he puts his hand on her head, he crosses a line. Sounds like you need to talk to him and say that the next time he puts his hands on your head and forces you to deep throat him, that will be it. Or you can take a stand now and break it off. There are plenty of guys out there that won't force a girl.

    Take this time to reflect on it. Let's say you stick it out with this guy and he continues to do this. Where would you draw the line? What if he slapped your face, recorded the event and showed his friends or leaked it on the internet, tied you up and forced himself on you in other ways. He likes to control his partner and without consent then there are problems. My suggestion, walk away and take steps to ensure he doesn't lash back. (move somewhere new, or with family/friends who know the situation, change locks if there is a chance he could have a key, tell a boss at work if he shows up there, notify the police if he harasses you, accept phone calls on speaker phone with witnesses that are willing to testify otherwise allow him to leave incriminating evidence on voicemail, look into tasers and pepper spray)

    Bear mace works best if you live in a rural community. It might be rather late in the season to pick it up though. Deer season is here but most bears are finding a sleeping spot for winter.

    • Thats really great advice. I am sure he's not like that. But we are sure to break it off soon. Thank you

    • In the end you see someone's true colors. They may not have shown you all sides of them and their vindictive nature rears its ugly head. Or they surprise you with taking it very nice which makes you wish you never broke up in the first place. Hope everything goes well.

    • Too much assumption going on here from what the first post is saying. I know this is old, but you are asking her to take a kneejerk reaction from something that honestly you know nothing about. I'm probably in a better position to giver her advice than you are, since I actually have given blowjobs in the past. First of all, have the two of you ever talked about sex supertango, other than deciding to do it? Your likes, dislikes, your limits, etc? This bullshit about putting hands on the head is really over the top. That's something that is only crossing the line if the person is involved says it is. That isn't your decision to make. Also, how the hell is he supposed to know she doesn't like it if she doesn't tell him? You honestly sound like someone who has never had any experience with sex outside of missionary. Paranoid as fuck.

  • well . . . it's silly for him to think yer "weak" or for you to worry about appearing that way during sex. if it's something that's making you uncomfortable or hurting you, let him know. there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. it's something you need to do.

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  • My boyfriend has put his hand on my head once and I told him I didn't like it, so he hasn't done it again.. And my eyes actually tear up too but I don't mind because I know how much pleasure he is getting Lol

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  • Most people's eyes tear up as part of their gag reflex. I'd say more importantly do you mind this happening? If you don't, it seems a little rough or abusive. If you don't feel comfortable doing this, then you definitely need to say something to him about it.

    Now if you don't mind this, then tearing up might add to the atmosphere or feeling of him dominating you.

  • I would worry. Crying during sex is a show-stopper, unless she warns me in advance.

    • Um I'm pretty sure I didn't saw during sex.

  • No as long as its not because she can't stand the smell.

  • Most guys that physically push your head down, are turned on by things like tearing up and the gag reflex. He doesn't just think you're weak, he's make you his *****.

    Loose him, or it'll get worse.

  • Gag relfex, clearly he doesnt, depends on the guy how much he likes you etc...