Well, Anonymous User, what can this mature playdoc say except that you have just given your baby the most perfect start in life by feeding him or her from your body. (before anyone shouts at me I acknowledge that sometimes its not possible and that freedom of choice means that a mother is perfectly entitled to breast feed or not)
It's what your breasts were meant for. The appearance and appeal to a lover is secondary and in any event there are ways to restore your figure. You've only just finished breastfeeding, you're very concious of the appearance of your breasts, they will improve of their own accord.
As for considering a boob job, please think carefully about this. As a playdoc, practicing for some 20 yrs, I've seen and palpated many breasts in teaching self examination techniques. Of those ladies who have had breast augmentation there have been some dreadful results with the implant descernible both visually and to touch. Many report sensitivity problems too!
Finally, any lover who thinks a womans breasts are gross as a result of breast feeding is not worth having as a lover.
If you'd like to discuss this issue further then feel free to chat on Yahoo Instant Messenger (compatible with most other Messengers) where my ID is BigK148@yahoo.co.uk or email at karlstone@talktalk.net
regards
Dr Karl Stone
You are nearly 35, do you imagine you are going to look like you are 15 forever? Your body degrades with time, accept it. If you have a guy that is put off because of some insignificant physical attribute like the shape of those useless sacks of fat on your chest, you need a more mature less superficial man who can recognize your less tangible and more important attributes. I hold a rather radical view of breasts. When feeding your children has ended, they no longer have any purpose and if you want to do anything with them surgically, get them entirely removed. After all they are prone to some serious health risks, they get in the way of many activities. Remember, you are more than what you look like. Reserve your attention for those males smart enough to realize that.
I am bisexual and adore women and find them absolutely amazing, so I hope you don't mind if I answer.
Personally, as long as the breasts are not huge (I very rarely like large DD+ breasts) or fake then I don't care how they look. I am always more interested in personality, confidence and attitude than any other trait (obviously the same with men). I can not deny that I find perky natural breasts to be extremely beautiful and sexy. And even though I don't tend to like larger breasts, I find them more attractive if they are perky and firm. I would never base a relationship on this though. It's not at all important in terms of choosing or staying with a lover. I should also mention that I am NOT conversely turned off by non-perky breasts. Just fake ones. I really hate fake boobs. I find them disgusting (unless it is for reconstructive reasons do to illness or physical injury).
Great answer and Oh how I totally agree with Teresa!
Hi katie! Thank you :-)
I agree that was a great answer it would be great if more men thought like you do. Maybe I should switch sides lol.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!My wife is in the exact same spot you are in. Most normal well adjusted guys will be 100% happy just for the opportunity to get at any breasts and will certainly not expect them to be like a teenager. What you have is normal. You should not feel the need for surgery. I reassure my wife that I get no less pleasure from her post breastfeeding boobies than I did before, and it is the truth!
I'll answer you that with a question.
Go you mind if a guy has developed that middle aged belly that is as natural for many men as the effects of gravity are for most women?
I'm not talking fat but the spread that most men develop after age 35 or so that centers around the gut?
I'm just curious.
As to your question, The boob does not make the woman. I hate that we tend to associate physical appearance with the worth of the person inside. I have always found the person more attractive.
Awww that is so nice... I wonder if all guys think like that? I just want to be comfortable and feel sexy. I'm 30 not at all old, most pp think I'm around 25 and I certainly don't want to be covering up my imperfections, I want to be confidant. As for the tyre around the middle, is cool.... They are called Love Handles... : )
Well, we all have visual triggers. That's just a million years of evolution. And as a society we have a image of what is attractive. Look at the paintings of Peter Paul Reuben. The women were all very rotund and plump. Most of the women of that period were and that is what was considered attractive because a fat woman could store away food reserves to survive the lean months when food was less plentiful. So men wanted women that could survive and be around longer.
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