Do guys enjoy giving massages?

[Anonymous]

Whenever I talk about my back hurting one of my friends instantly jumps up and offers me a massage, but I i know he likes me so I don't know if he's doing that because he enjoy doing it or if he just wants to touch me. Also I want to know if I should try to get my boyfriend to massage my back or not (I have a lot of back troubles) or if that's a turn off for him?

[Imsodone101]

I bet you are right about your friend that likes you. Either he just wants to touch you or he just accually cares. Go ahead and ask your boyfriend for massages. If he loves and cares about you why wouldn't he want to make you feel better? So if his reaction is negative then chances are he really doesn't care about you, or he just doesn't realize that relationships require work and partnership. All I know is if I was with a woman that I loved and she had back problems, I would at least TRY to give her massages when I could. This could be a great test to see how loyal he is to you.

[hazeces]

Co-Sign... Thumbs up...

[hazeces]

Um... OK , first off... if I ever find my Girlfriend getting a massage by another dude, the only thing she'll get from me is the deuces. Second, that dude just want to touch you, I wouldn't recomend letting him do that to you, because if you do he will just think you are letting him in. Come on now, do you think I will actually tell any girl I'll give you a massage if I didn't like her. Please!

[Mya59]

I've got a friend who often gives massages to people (and not just girls) so some guys could just be nice I'm not saying that's the case with the girl asking, but it is possible

[The25yodude]

I second that. I love to give massages to make people feel better. I think only a selfish person wouldn’t like to give a massage. And leaving her because she got a massage is pretty rash.

[Anonymous]

I enjoy giving and getting massages. It's really sensual.

[Anonymous]

> I don't know if he's doing that because he enjoy doing it or if he just wants to touch me

There is another reason to enjoy giving massages apart from enjoying touch? :O

[The25yodude]

I enjoy giving a massage more than getting one. It’s not the touching for me but a distraction from my own stresses in the form of making other peoples worries melt away.