Do guys expect something in return after fingering a girl?

[Anonymous]

So I'm dating this guy and a little while ago he fingered me a lot for the first time but I don't know if he wanted me to do something to him? Or if he just likes pleasuring me? Like he didn't hint me to do anything :/ On a guys perspective do you enjoy pleasuring a girl and not expecting anything in return if its the first time? Also, I've never given a hj or bj so I don't know how to initiate this! HELP

[westman74]

Okay he is a secert every woman should know... Unless you hit it hard or try to pull it off... It more than likely feels good... Treat it like you would want him to treat your nipple... lick suck it tease it... If you get stuck and aren't sure ask him to show you how he strokes it... Tell him it turns you on to see it... Then do the same! :) Also if you don't intend on having sex tell him... But tell him what you will do... It makes it better knowing a handjob or bj is in the works and most guys will respect that you are not ready... Good luck and have fun

[l-hedoniste]

It's like any other gift; he did it because he thought you'd enjoy it. Your pleasure is payback enough.

[Asker]

Wish more guys had your answer, haha

[peace-love-couture]

Yes

They don't do things "just because" or "to please the girl"

They want theirs haha

Just tell him you're inexperienced and he'll understand

[diamond3]

pull out his d*** and go up and down.. that's it really

[Asker]

But like what if its awkard or I'm bad at it?

[diamond3]

u won't know unless you try

[Asker]

blah OK thanks, ill go in for the kill -.-

[the-82]

dont girls like it better if the guy pulls his own d I c k out not the girl

[diamond3]

it really doesn't mater who pulls it out

[LittleWeewee]

Relax. No problem - check out the great instructional videos at handjobadvice. Awesome moves that would drive any guy wild.

[DocClassic]

ya I think its fairly expected

[Anonymous]

Good men will enjoy both, giving and receiving. That said most men don's want to give, and not receive.

For tips on how to give a hj or bj. O would suggest you look online for some instructional videos. No amount of reading is going to be as good, as actually seeing it. As a general rule if a woman is touching our penis, we are happy. Just make sure you open your mouth wide on bj's because the teeth can really hurt.