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Do guys expect to have to pull out?
Anonymous
So, I recently had sex with my boyfriend for the first time. As I have been on pills for years, which he knew, I didn't make him put on a condom. I kinda figured that was unspoken permission to finish in me, but he pulled out at the last minute just as I was getting close to my O. I probably should have said what I wanted in advance, but my question is this. Do guys always expect to have to pull out until they are told otherwise? I'd like to hear perspectives from both sides.
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What Girls & Guys Said
9 19I won't go unprotected but I have heard that a lot of guys pull out so they can come on the girl. They apparently get off at that. I think it's cause p*rn is screwing with people's minds.
I always wear a condom, but if not than I pull out unless told too. I don't want to make her pregnant if she isn't okay with it yet.
I never rely on just one level of protection. The only way I finish inside is if I am wearing a condom and she is on birth control. Otherwise the risks are just too great.