Do guys feel ANY emotional attachment when having sex?

I had a one night stand with this guy I barely knew, after it we kept in contact by phone every day, we've met up every week for dinner/drinks/movies but every date ends up with us having sex again. My question is do guys feel any emotional bond after a one night stand or do you think he's just stringing me along to get some?
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  • Here's the way it works for guys:

    If a guy has an emotional attachment to you BEFORE you have sex (whether you are aware of it or not), then having sex can intensify those feelings. That doesn't always happen, but it's very common.

    But if a guy does not have an emotional attachment to you before having sex, then the sex won't create one. Guys don't work that way, but women DO. Women are biologically designed to bond to the person she has sex with, while men are designed to be able to have sex without emotional attachment.

    That doesn't mean men don't get attached, it's just that the attachment isn't rooted in sex; it comes from other things, and usually happens very, very early in the relationship, or not at all.

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    • agree with him.

  • For as much as I would like to fantasize about having casual sexual encounters, I have to confess that I do have an emotional connection when I have sex with a woman, consequently this has worked out very well for me because not only do I enjoy this aspect of sex, it has worked very well for me because I also like being in a close meaningful relationship with my wife, so in answer to your question, yes I develop very strong emotional attachments with the woman I have sex with, again fortunately for me I am not afraid of commitment, so it works out very well for me. :-)

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  • For some guys, yes. Emotion will be a factor. Some guys it's not a factor at all. Depends on the guy. Though I would suggest talking to him about it. Ask him if he wouldn't mind slowing down for a while. Or asking him how he really feels about you. Beyond that, there's not a whole lot you can do about this, other than trusting your gut, your woman's intuition, instincts or hunches or whatever the hell you wanna call it.

    Your call.

    • you have your point. Some guy do have it

    • And yet you voted me down.

  • No. Any sort of emotional bond between you two would likely come from before, the movies and dates, but as for the sex, that will make it complicated to really get an accurate answer. =j Again, it always seems to make things more complicated than it ever needs to be. XP

  • maybe but emotional bond doesn't necessarily mean we'd want more.

  • Sex intensifies the emotional attachment.

    But in your case I am seeing no attachment, when every date ends with sex - you guys are only into sex, else there should be at least one date you were not getting laid.

    Forget the emotions - if it has to be developed - it must have been by now.