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Do guys have different levels of "hardness"?

I have been seeing this guy for a few weeks and we would only make out/heavy petting, but he would always get boners and I knew he really wanted more. Finally one night he kind of pushed me into giving him my first blow job ever. Because I haven't ever done that before I didn't know if anything was out of the ordinary or what not. After I got done he kept going on about it and asking if I realized "how built up that was?" or how much he had been "needing" that. He then asked me if I realized how hard he was...as if he was REALLY hard or harder than usual. I was just like "I guess?" and I almost thought he seemed offended or surprised as if his hard on was obviously exceptionally hard that time. Can a guys hard on vary in "hardness"?
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  • Yes, definitely. And guys are usually their hardest and biggest right before they orgasm, and many girls will know their man is about to because they can feel it get a tad bigger and super-hard right at that moment. But sometimes a guy may just be super-turned-on and he'll get the same way. Most erections aren't at 100% the whole time, and many only get there right at the end.

  • Oh yes, that was meant to be THEE epitome of a compliment.

    • lol = ) Good to know

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  • Boners are not binary they are analog.

    • laymen's terms?

    • Haha, such a male response and such a girls response to it not getting it. He means that it isn't an "on and off"-switch kind of thing but a lots of different states between flaccid and rock hard.

    • Correct sir.

  • Yes we definitely do...----> link

  • Yes, it can.

  • yes..cock tense up and increase so well...try handjob pull skin so tight in one hand and rub hard with other its be super hard, blowjob and take out **** from mouth see how super hard it is. while f***ing so hard take out the **** and see how super hard it is...

  • Yes. The more turned-on I'm, the harder my penis gets.

  • yea it all depends on how turned on they are or how good it feels when your doing it. him being really hard is a very good thing

  • yea there are different levels of hardness. it can range from rock hard and really stiff to not fully hard and just a little softer

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