Do guys know when they get boners?

[Anonymous]

k my first question is when I guy gets one does he know like can he feel it or does it feel the same as not having one? second after having sex and ejaculating how long till you can get hard again? my boyfreind says he can't for like 24 hours is this normal or is he lieing I had a boyfreind that could get hard again in like 5 minutes is it different for every guy?

[christian2724]

We can tell without checking if we have a boner. It feels more rigid obviously. It'll catch on our pants and underwear and just generally want to be set free. And it's much more sensitive to pleasure.

If I'm really excited I can get another within 5 minutes of cumming. Otherwise, maybe 10 or 15 minutes. For me, it's better to wait. If I rush it it becomes very difficult to finish the second time. It'll take a while. Different guys are different and it changes A LOT with age.

Your boyfriend sounds like a liar. I find it very VERY hard to believe he needs 24 hours. That's way too long. Even for a guy in his 70s. Yes, different guys are different but 24 hours just sounds way outside of normal.

[hALLDAY]

We can feel it and gain a lot more control and sensation when we get an erection.

Depends on the guy (refractory period) and how hard you went at it. link

[MidSummerNightDream]

Yeah, they can definitely feel it with all that blood rushing in there, haha. Most guys should be able to get hard again within 15-20 minutes afterward. You're boyfriend might not be lying, but it's definitely not normal for it to take that long. He might have really low hormonal levels, he might want to get that checked out by a doctor.

[sbeaver47]

When you get one, or are starting to, you can definitely tell you're getting one. For me getting hard again sometimes goes really fast, and other times can take awhile. Depends on how turned on I am and how long it's been since I've 'cum'. It usually takes me longer too if my girlfriend is really wanting me to. The more I think about it the harder it is to get hard

[Rizzle]

We are very very aware when we have boners.. feels totally different than flaccid.

i can usually get hard again close to 10 minutes

[Voltaire]

A bonner? Never had me one of those before.

[ladsin]

haha I highly doubt what he says but I guess it could be possible for me depends typically 5 to 15 minutes... and yes really easy to tell specially because your pants get tighter =P

[thoronmegil]

1) It's quite obvious, without seeing or handling it

2) Hard? or ejaculate? Depends on the guy, but many guys will STAY hard or get hard again very quickly and can ejaculate again in oh, say, definitely less than an hour (though it's less and less enjoyable and more uncomfortable each time)

[Anonymous]

Yes, we can feel it. I don't know about other guys, but I can keep mine up and keep going as long as I keep stimulating it until I come the second time. After that, it will take a few minutes.