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Do guys lie about how many people they have had sex with ?

Why did he say he only slept with 4 girls! Should I believe him. Also do ugly guys have a harder time getting a girl?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I feel that younger men lie in order to impress their friends. But as men get older, they are more honest about the amount of partners.

    It is a complete pain in the butt crack for ugly/below average/average men to get a girl. Just read some of the dating questions and this will give you an idea of how man of us men have been forsaken by God. The Women's movement of the1990's has made approaching women far more difficult than ever. Age and race are minor criteria but if a man is not athletic, tall and VERY handsome, he's in for a rough life.

    • Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and usually we tend to put ourselves down before even others do it. If a guy is confident and has a good personality then he may have to work a bit harder than a good looking guy but in the end he can still have an active dating life. It is all about mindset and putting yourself out there as nobody goes around knocking on random doors to see if prince charming or the princess of their dreams lives behind the door.

  • Some guys do lie about that, but not all guys lie about it. And for the guys that do lie about it, they usually say a bigger number, not a smaller number.

    And for ugly guys, I've seen the ugly guys who make an average living have a hard time getting a girl. But for the rich ugly guys, they usually do just fine with women.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I don't think you should expect to get an honest answer when you ask a guy a question like this. If you're interesting in having sex with him just go get tested first! That way you'll at least know he's clean.

  • I have known guys and girls to lie about how many people they have slept with, but some I am sure they are not lying.

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  • Just like everybody else that has answered this question, most guys lie about how many people they have been with. They usually add lots more to look like they have had much more sex and are good in bed. Instead of the reality that they haven't had much sex and the sex most likely isn't that good for the ladies, I would lean toward most guys don't care if the sex is good for the ladies.

  • Are you bi or gay?

    ( not in a rude way. But this question is really confusing. It is a guy asking if guys lie about sex partners. )

    • no i am a girl and only into men. my ex would lie about having sex with girls. he only said he slept with four girls. he lied to me saying he never slept with his ex before me and admitted he did after we had sex. i was pissed but he still said it has been only four

    • Then it had only been four by the way; guys don't like drama. telling as much truth as possible completely avoids drama! so 9 chances out of 10 he did not lie. haha you said your only into men like I'm lesbian or bi. I have a boyfriend and I love guys. I could Never be bi or lesbian.

    • Yeah. My ex use to tell me he was a ugly man. But hell I was so attracted to him because we talked on the phone and got to know one another before being physical. So I thought he was so good looking that he lied about how many he has been with. We are broken up know but I want him back and the sex was great.

  • Yes, most men and women lie about their sex partners. Men tend to increase the number while women decrease.

    The mathematical formula for men is,

    (sex partners claimed) / 4 = actual sex partners

    For women,

    (sex partners claimed) * 4 = actual sex partners

    :)

    As for ugly guys getting girls, I don't think it is any harder than for the average joe. Sex is a numbers game. The more people you approach the better are your odds even if the guy happens to be a relative of Quasimodo.

    • Well that isn't so true but thanks for the comment. I have only been with a total of three guys and never would lie about it

  • Yup - woman sometimes also try to brag about how many sex partners they have had - there was that fade for a bit a while pack for girls to get 300+ tattoos on them - as in, claiming to have had over 300 sex partners - this was to imply that they were well trained in the art of sex, and therefor more enjoyable then other girls in the bedroom/backseat/stalls/alley/bushes

  • Not all guys lie about their sex partners some do though and unless you can truly tell he is lying then there's no way to know

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