Do guys like a ball breaker kind of girl?

[Anonymous]

my friend is naturally like that. She is a nice girl but she could have the "cool/bitch" vibe and she is sarcastic also the type who will tease guys a lot and call them out when they "do something wrong" but she always seems to get her way with guys because she doesn't take crap. She isn't overly aggressive or pushy. She doesn't run after men. She just busts their chops and isn't all sweet but more teasing and will call them out when they mess up. Is this a turn on or not? I am more the sweet type and I am not so quick to stand up for myself. Which has hurt me before. But I am just not naturally like her. She isn't the soft/feminine type of personality even though she is pretty.

[Anonymous]

This is exactly how I am except minus the teasing and calling people out when they messed up and and causing drama.

I am cool/laidback, but some people may be considered a bitch because I don't take crap and the sarcam. I also don't run after men. That being said, I don't have that much success when it comes to guys so that type of personality very well be a turn-off for guys.

The personalty that guys like is very bubbly, fun, and agreeable. Its also easier to manipulate girls who do the chasing so guys like having that option. However, the hotter you are the less your personality is an issue.

[Asker]

i am very agreeable and not bossy/pushy

[Opinion Owner]

Guys don't like bitchy though. They like for girls to be as pleasant as possible. "Ball breaking" and "busting a guy's chops" are considered unpleasant, aggressive, and disagreeable behavior. It makes guys feel like they are in competition with you and guys don't like to feel in competition with a girl they like.

[MikeK]

+1 AU. God, I couldn't have said it better myself :)

[Opinion Owner]

Guys do prefer sweet girls but there's a lot of other factors to consider. Like how hot she is, how fun she is, and how likely it is that she'll put out. If she has a high level of the aforementioned then guys will like her even if she is bitchy and not sweet.

[Anonymous]

Based on your description of yourself and your friend, I much prefer a girl like you. It's just a personal preference, but I like feminine women, not masculine ones.

[Asker]

how do you define masculine?

[dudeman]

nope, I be like by bitch

[johnvanjohn]

diamonds are forever, bitches are not. no one wants one around him for long...

[Anonymous]

Everyone is an individual, and thus has individual tastes.

[Anonymous]

Based on what you've tolled us I prefer girls like you to girls like her. I like, to use your words, the soft/feminine type. Some gury will find it a turn on but I don't.