Do guys like eating a girl out? Why ?

I would love to know I haven't let anyone do it to me before and I don't want to be rejected because guys don't like doing it.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • The best thing to do is just let go of all your inhibitions, worries and self consciousness and surrender to the physical feeling and intimacy. Don't worry about smelling funny (but do shower before he comes over!), or if it looks normal, because if there's something I have learnt over the years it's that there is no such thing as a normal vagina. Everyone looks a bit different.

    So that would be my first bit of advice. Lose the hang ups! Sexual activity (whether intercourse or oral) is supposed to be fun and intimate and enjoyable, and it can be a real downer when a girl gets really uncomfortable.

    My second, and probably most important point, is that you should know what you like. I'm not talking about being experienced, but you should try and do stuff to help you understand your body. Do you like clitoral stimulation? Do you like vaginal penetration? Masturbate and figure out what you like, which will make it easier for you to guide him when he's going down on you. He's not a mind reader, so I find that it's best to give little encouraging moans, or suggest things in a really positive way "I really like it when you..."

    Seriously though, just lie back and enjoy it! I think it's important to know what you like though, because if you don't know, how can he know? Get him to lick around your clitoris, that always feels really nice.

  • Well, every guy varies when it comes to technique, but he may be licking, kissing, and sucking on your clitoris and labia, and licking around and/or inside your vagina. He may also finger you while licking your clit, for example.

    Just relax and enjoy it. If you feel comfortable, you can give him some direction on what feels best for you. You may or may not have an orgasm, but what's most important is for the two of you to just relax and have fun.

Most Helpful Guys

  • well before hand he should probably warm you up, so like kissing your neck or something liek that, move down, something to kinda ease into it. He might even slip his hand between your legs to tease you a bit, get you wet. Eventually, the actual oral act is basically him pleasing you with his tongue. He'll most likely basically go at your clitoris wether it be licking, flicking, sucking or sometimes (only if it pleases you, its rare) biting. Assuming this I s your first time, he should alternate until he finds one or you gys find one you really like, and stick with it.

    While he's doing it, you should act normally as you would being pleasured, at this point you should be caught up in the moment so you shouldn't have to think about it too much. Give him some reassurance that he's doing well, i.e. "that's right... oh yes baby..." stuff like that. If he's NOT doign it well, instead of pushing him back or something, just guide him to do what's right, for example telling him harder ahrder then when he gets the right amount of pressure, just saying yes, that's it. All in a pleasured tone. You should also maybe lift up your hips to make it easier for him, or put a pillow underneath your hips so he has an easier time getting at it.

    Its completely normal. Many people do it there is nothing wrong with oral sex, you don't have to worry.

  • I love doing it with or without getting oral in return. I love how a girl tastes and smells down there and the feeling of how wet she gets while I'm going down on her. It's also great hearing her moan and feeling her contract when she comes. In this case, it's definitely better to give than to receive.

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  • Most guys enjoy doing it because it is fun and it is almost a sure way to get you off (if they know how to do it right).

    Some guys do it, however, because they expect the same back.

    I have done it for fun and not gotten oral back but it was still worth it because I like making my girl happy.

  • Relax, open up, lie back and enjoy it. If you are enjoying it, let the person who is doing it know it, move your hips a little bit. It's good stuff to give and get!

  • I love to eat a girl out, because its mosly fun and turns the girls on so fast and she really is so happy and enjoying the feeling and the wow this amazying kinda thing. plus some girls smell good down there and it taste not so bad. but I enjoy it. I love making the girl happy that's why I love eating a girl out.

  • some guys would never do it but some guys love doing it so you just have to ask ur guy what the will and won't do and if he isn't willing to give oral to you I wouldn't give it to him its only fair

  • Kind of hard to explain why we like it. We just do. Like were genetically prepared to jump in. Either way, you shouldn't worry much.

  • most normal guys love it :)

    its just epic

  • some guys do and some guys don't. I like it for four reasons:

    1. Women really seem to get off on it.

    2. It always gets them wet so everything afterward is easier.

    3. It makes it easier to give her multiple orgasms.

    4. I can tell a lot about whether or not we are compatible.

    • Big time on number 4 lol

    • How so on #4?

  • well she hasn't had sex with with anybody other then me in over a year then I'm down. I love making girls squirm. I think its hot when the orgasm and the squeeze your head with their thigh.

  • My boyfriend loves. Doing it I haven't had to ask him at all he just goes down on his own

  • the girl should lay on her back open her legs, relax, guide the guy. moan when you like something he is doin,g reassure the man. if you really enjoy it pull the guy in closer by the hair! squirm when you like it and jus let yourself be naturall look into his eyes...

  • love doing it, could do it for hours. id do it if I knew nothing else was going to happen in return or go any further. the taste, smell, view, and close feelings all make it a great experience.