Do guys like spontaneous sex?

So tonight I want to surprise my boyfriend. Like when he is watching TV or whatever I wanna come into our room with my new lingerie and I guess start doing my thing if you catch my drift. But guys, I want to know if you would like that? Do you have any suggestions on what I should do? I just want it to be great!
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  • Depends on how the guy is feeling. If he has sex on his mind, he'll love it when you put the lingerie on and start seducing him with sexy moves. Such as bending over and wiggling your butt, sitting in his lap and pressing your chest into his face, or sucking his lips and nibbling his ears.

    If he isn't horny, he may reject it. He appreciates it, but it's just not good timing. Nothing wrong with you, so don't start feeling bad or making up pessimistic rationalizations like 'oh I see, I'm not attractive to you anymore'. Blah blah, cry, cry!

    When I want to have sex, I will usually let my girl know. And I'll attempt to make it happen. But when my girl wants to do it, it just depends. I may not be in the mood, and I'll convince her to be patient for a bit longer. Then I'll let her do what she wants with me within the next 24-48 hours.

  • You're young. I am guessing he is too. You're a pretty girl. He must like that about you - hopefully one of many reasons he is with you. So, I am thinking that he will enjoy the show and respond accordingly.

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  • I love it. But... in my old age (yeah I'm over 40) my body isn't always as capable as my desire so that is part of the problem.

  • Yes yes yes! One of the most common complaints through men is that their partner doesn't initiate often enough.

    • she is talking about surprising the dude. that's not the same as initiating. she could initiate it when theyre both going to bed, and it wouldn't be a surprise.

    • True, but still. Pretty much any guy would love it.

  • well, thatd be a little too spontaneous if you are trying to get him arroused after watching Wipeout or something. Timing does matter in my oppinion. But I think you should do it

  • Absolutely, love spontaneous sex, and the lingerie is a big turn in. Guys are very visual, maybe start with a little teasing, flirting and sexy talk, then have some fun.

  • Hell ya! do it up

  • I suppose if you were to come in in your lingerie, the mood automatically becomes sexual... I think either just slinking over, or starting a slow striptease, or lapdance or even asking what he would like you to do...

  • I wish that would happen to me! :D

  • if like you girl , I love it ofcourse

  • put on a really short skirt, go over to him and straddle him. Gently start to grind on him, making sure you press your sexy new panties onto his crotch, get him all excited then maybe give him a seductive flash of your panties. If that don't work then I don't know what would ;) good luck (lucky guy) ;) x

  • what's not to like?

  • i don't want to have sex if I'm all dirty. so if I were to get spontaneous sex, make sure its after I have showered.

    but in general, I don't think I care much for getting spontaneous sex. if we are in a sexually active relationship, then sex shouldn't be a surprise. that being said, I would rather be the person initiating spontaneous sex.

  • yes they do