Do guys masturbate using a condom sometimes or is that rare?

My boyfriend and I are long distance. We see each other like 2 time a month if were lucky and we've been together for about 7 months. We are waiting to have sex. Which is my choice cause I want to wait until I'm married but he has had sex before in previous relationships. He's been totally cool with it and everything and we are really in love he's a really good boyfriend. So I was at his house one of the times I was visiting and I was cleaning everything for him while he was at work to be nice and help him out. So I'm cleaning the bathroom and I take the trash out and like 3 used condoms fell out so I was like what the heck? Seriously. I didn't ask him cause what he was going to think I was going through his trash like a crazy person and I wasn't so what do you think is going on I know probably going to say he's cheating but could he be using them to masturbate? I know he does a lot he's told me don't blame him since I'm making him wait. Omg I just don't know what to do. If he is cheating on how am I ever supposed to find out and I don't want to accuse him of something he didn't do ya know and I can't ask any of my friends cause I'm too embarrassed! What do you think? Thanks!
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  • I've actually heard of guys doing that, because they have a feeling of it being too dirty to do without one. But it's rare.

    I myself masturbated with one on when I was young, just to see what it was like, because I had never worn one before.

    But, if he is cheating, there might not be any way for you to purposely catch him. You might just have to see if he slips up somehow.

    The fact that you found those things in the trash can means that he doesn't cover his tracks well enough. So, if anything is going on, chances are you'll know before long, if you don't already.

  • It sounds like there could be something going on here. I would just ask him about it directly. If he's innocent, he should be able to explain why they were in his trash. And, if he's guilty, you caught him! Either way, he should give you an explanation. You didn't snoop; they were just in the trash! Besides, that is not exactly a common item to have laying around, unless you are involved in sexual activity! Nobody I know, uses them for masturbation. That's not even practical; why would you do it?

    • Ya I dk why he would use a condom for that either but I was hoping that's what it is. Its actually been 2 weeks since I've been there and found that and at this point I just don't know how to bring it up. Like I really don't think he would cheat but who knows

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  • If you say that he is experienced then it is very unlikely that he has been using them alone. Sorry. Just being rational.

  • Man! Did you ever figure this one out? I found condoms and my boy used the same excuse!

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  • Hmm, well, two admissions here.
    Yes, I’ve used condoms while masturbating, mainly because I have really big loads and clean up can be a pain if I don’t. 😁

    But yea, I’ve dated a girl wanting to wait before, I actually slept with 3 other girls while we were dating. So, odds are he’s sleeping around.

  • It depends. The only way I see him using those condoms by himself is to see if they fit properly or if he's inexperienced with putting them on. Otherwise, unless he's using them for something they aren't intended for, he might be cheating on you. I would advise not to jump to any conclusions though.

    • Well he's not inexperienced at all so that def isn't it. And they were def used so I don't know what he's up to I'm so sick to my stomach every time he's like I love you its all I think about ugh

  • I'm a guy and I prefer masturbating with condoms rather than without. It's way more pleasurable, especially with prolonged sessions, because the longer I can hold off my orgasm the more come and pre-cum I leak, and all that liquid builds up inside the condom to create a great lubricated sleeve inside the condom. It also results in less friction, and it's less messy at the end.

  • My wife only likes sex once or twice a year so I have to masturbate, she insists I wear a condom to reduce the mess & the smell the glands behind the head of the penis produce. I think there are more men out there that wear condoms while masturbating than what you think.

  • My own preference is to use a condom when I masturbate. First I put a small amount of lube just below the head of my penis and then I roll the condom on. I get the sensation of the condom moving on my penis which is very pleasurable. It also protects my penis from getting sore, because as I get closer and closer to cuming the penis stays lubricated and even though I rubbing very hard I don’t cause any sores. The best part is not worrying about making a mess in the bed. Without a condom I use a tissue to catch my cum, but it makes me hold back just a bit at the moment of cuming, which I don't have to worry about when I'm rubbered up. Then after I come I can bask in the afterglow without worrying about sticky come all over the place. I suggest you ask your boyfriend to masturbate in front of you with a condom, I'm sure he'd find that exciting and you can see for yourself. There are times when my wife doesn’t feel like making love, but she caresses me while I masturbate this way.

  • Hi,

    I was surprised this is even an issue. I just broke up with my gf over this.

    Like already mentioned, guys would definitely try it, just to see what it is like. Some might like it and some might not. So your guy could have just preferred that over something else or using a sock (like in American Pie).