Do guys really have practice girls?

[Who-Knows]

I just read this blip about how some females are viewed as the "practice girl". I was shocked!

Does anyone know of a guy or are you a guy who has been with/dated a female with the intention of using her as a practice girl?

I'm not judging anyone but I just can't believe in this day and age us women don't have ANY respect if we are sexually active but not in a committed relationship.

[Anonymous]

I just wanted to say that I have kind of had a "practise" guy, and I don't really think it was a big deal. Maybe it's sad, but I'm still glad I did it.

I was on holiday abroad, and it was my last night. I'm almost 18, and I had never even kissed a guy, so I thought it would be a good idea to try it with a guy that I would never see again, just in case something went wrong.

I was not drunk, but I had had a couple of drinks, and then a guy came up to me and started dancing. He was kinda cute.and that's the whole story.

Since the guy I like now is a bit older and way more experienced I'm glad I at least know how to kiss.but at the same time, I don't think I could have a practise guy for sex. But I guess some people can.

(Just thought I should speak up so the guys don't think they're the only ones doing it)

[katiesmuff]

I'm not quite sure I totally understand what it is you are trying to say or ask, but do you read the questions and answers that come across these pages. Today's young people sex is nothing, its just another thing to do with anyone whenever. It is really crazy.

"Practice girl" Not sure that is what I would call it but guys will stick their penis in anything they can get to open their legs today! No commitment, no relationship, hell they don't even have to know your name and the scariest thing is plenty of girls are doing just that for the guys.

[Who-Knows]

From what I said above, I meant more of a situation where a guy is completely preying on a gal who hinks he actually likes her or at least finds her sexually attractive.

[jokerforlifeny]

Cum on dnt be harsh on us, wut abut tht girl tht yu say jst gav it up ... why are sum girls so easy lik tht, so yu cnt put all the blame on us ... yu knw girl are thy sme way .....

[ilovelegs]

Wow I've never heard of such a thing, and just thinking that a guy could stoop that low shocks me too! But if you consider that having sex without being in a committed loving relationship is okay then I'd say both sexes are equally guilty of being practice partners. Thus you have the downside of being sexually acting without the type of relationship I just mentioned. I don't know anyone that's intentionally used a person for practice but I'd say it definitely happens because some people are unfortunately like that, and no doubt guys would be the most guilty. I guess my advice to women is to stop having sex outside of a loving and trusting committed relationship where total respect is there for both people, and that takes time to develop. If you do that you'll never have to worry about being a "practice girl".

[Who-Knows]

I have no "problem" if BOTH parties are consenting to a no commitment relationship but if a guy is just using a girl...i mean, doesn't he have to find her sexually attractive or how else could he maintain an erection?

[ilovelegs]

Yeah sure to some extent. But some guys are like sexually weird. Any way they can get off is a turn on to them. To to some, just getting a girl to submit is a turn on. Other guys don't care how they hurt a girl. But I understand where you're coming from. I just don't think it's the best idea for a girl to be in a no commitment sex relationship even when both consent.

[slotmachine]

Are you gay? Just because you seem kind of gay. No biggy, gay guys are cool. They dress well.

[ilovelegs]

Omg lol noo I'm not gay but you seem kinda weird that you can just go out and have sex with random guys just for the sex of it. don't you even understand what having sex is all about? nothing personal but you can be ok otherwise.

[Who-Knows]

Are you referring to ME about being weird? that wasn't me that asked you if you were gay. I came back on here to comment that you seem like you have a good head on yer shoulders. "You're alright, kid". I wish you well in life :-)

[ilovelegs]

Thank you.. and sorry you took it that way because that comment was for the one before me. Nooo omg I wasn't referring to you as being weird. Thanks for your comment.

[LukeOfTheDraw]

In middle school, a normal healthy male will basically have an erection 24/7, even if you're not thinking about sex. So yeah, practice girls were a normal thing at my middle school.

[Anonymous]

I've been with a girl where we had a mutual agreement that we were just experimenting. Learning. Exploring. Teaching. We had a great thing. And it was fun.

You don't have to believe that women have any self respect being active. But I have a huge amount of respect for a woman who knows what she wants and goes for it despite what her grandma might say.

[Mr5mrtA55]

I've never heard this expression. But, I'd guess that "practice girls" are girls guys are dating knowing it will eventually end and not marry. Every girl I'd had sex with and sex with my wife is practice, for the next session, is it not? My guess is that this is just another machismo term used between guys. I could be wrong though.

[crazymango]

I have a male friend that told me he wanted to perfect his sex techniques by practicing on girls simply because he wanted to be able to please the hell out of the girl of his dreams, whenever he met her. I see you blame females for not having respect, but I also blame females for putting so much pressure on guys to be incredible in bed. It's like we get upset when a guy disappoints us in the bedroom but dislike the idea of him bettering his techniques on another girl. Good sex doesn't fall from the sky and isn't something a guy picks up out of the oblivion. It requires time and practice. Practice girls do girls like you and me a favor. They allow guys to perfect their technique so when they get us in the bedroom they will know how to make us feel truly satisfied.

[l-hedoniste]

Practice Girl=Friends With Benefits=Booty Call.

It's commonplace, no big deal.

[banker]

Agree!

[NxWxW]

Garbage ones do...

[pepsired]

practice girl is a girl that the guy doesn't want to have a relationship with but still wants to have sex and keep in practice so he doesn't get too rusty or fall behind in the times. its a one night stand, a booty call, whatever you want to call it. it doesn't mean he is practicing on you(although that does happen for both sexes).

[T_Bonerism]

Sometimes it isn't intentional. My only relationship certainly ended up that way though and not by my own accord. I felt used. Honestly though, despite me still struggling with it emotionally, I'm grateful I got some experience though and I don't think I will have as much self-doubt when the time comes.

[Skeptic]

Yup, sure do! :D

[wally]

both girls and guys are doing this trust me , they don't want anything real like a relationship

just wanna have fun as they say these days with out any commitment .

[Who-Knows]

Well, that's different. Both parties aren't emotionally invested per se. I guess I mean more of when a girl thinks a guy likes her or at least is attracted enough to have sex but the whole time this guy is just using her for practice. geez, it makes me sad thinking about it!! :-)

[quantumdefender]

actually I am 39 and still a virgin, but I have been rejected by a lot of women because they wanted "experienced men only" or "men who know what they are doing"

so it makes a lot of sense if I found a woman willing to do something like what you were asking about.

chances are that if I were to ask, I'd get slapped instead.

[Who-Knows]

Well, there's this book called "Make her Come first" and I've heard guys swear by it. I hope that your "first" experience is a good one and you wouldn't have to stoop to just using a girl as "practice". :-)

[Dargil]

I knew one in high school. She was the sister of one of our crew. She had sex with every one of us, except me because I was such a prude. She did not have a rep in school because nobody ever passed the word along outside out group. If one of us did, the brother would have beaten the shyt out of us. Queen sang "Fat bottomed girls make the rockin' world go round".

[Ámayas_20]

There is a difference between having no respect for women and having a 'practice girl' people of both genders do this it's kinda shitty but in the end maybe be smarter about who you're fucking if you care that much.

[slotmachine]

Sure; it happens. The first time I got a BJ it was just some sophomore who I didn't give a shit about. Sure she was hot, but I just wanted to figure out what a blowjob was about. Wound up not working out too well; she was a biter and managed to tell the whole junior class how she blew me in my convertible. Karma's a bitch I guess.

[Who-Knows]

Sounds like it, ha ha. thanks for the input

[Eridan]

Looking back, I think that si all the girls I've been with so far were in fact practice girls

[MannMitAntworten]

I have never even heard of a "practice girl" till now. No... I don't even do "rebounds".

[needadvice1245]

I could do that right now if I wanted to

[Fuentes]

Yeah pretty normal

[bamesjond0069]

Women who have sex outside of marriage generally are not respected by men. Sorry thats how it is. This is why so many people say wait for marriage.

[whitecops]

I'm a guy who has, on several occasions, availed of the services of "practice girls".

just kidding.

but yeah, people do that..and it's not just guys. girls do it too. it's also sometimes called "casual sex". and it's true that people don't get too much respect if they're known to have much sex without being committed. but don't think that women are singled out for it. I have to take just as much sh*t from some of my friends for being promiscuous as do some girls I know. in fact, girls are starting to be looked-up-to for it. I guess it's the changin' times..like that sasha grey girl..if you want to call her a "girl", rather than a "phenomenon".

[livingintheville]

Yes and wives

[Anonymous]

I’m not going to lie but I have been sexually active with the same guy for 3 years but we’re not dating. We love and care for one another but don’t want to date.