Do guys reslly care what our labia look like?

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I Been feeling down about my labia...I use a mirror to shave so I don't nick a sensitive spot and it just hit me maybe it's ugly...I have a full innie but towards the bottom of my labia majora they are kinda wrinkled :( is that unusual? unattractive? I am a virgin so that bull sh*t stereotype if you use it is wrinkles or hangs not true. it doesn't hang at all because I'm an innie but it's little loser feeling skin..is this normal?

AdamantForce · Accepted Answer

There is nothing more "socially" lied about by the majority of "bitch-made" men, than the look of the vagina.

To be honest, it can be a thing of unparallelled beauty, like the "Homer" ( a neat and "young looking" smooth vaginal area resembling Homer Simpsons Mouth turned 90º.
Or it can be a nightmarish sight, like the Predators face.

Now before I say anything further, allow me to make one point clear. Love is great, a person is more than how they look, personality, content of ones character, yadda yadda yadda, we know the spiel.
But when it comes down to attraction, the physical kind, its all about what you like to look at. Like most women dont find the beer belly, pattern baldness, missing tooth, cross-eyes, and body hair combo to be attractive. Right? So it is safe to say that looks make or brake the deal in terms of "fuckability"

The first encounter of a predator (like the movie, get it?) I had my hand shoved down a girls panties (by her) and was lead through the rainforest of pubic hair, to something that damn near stalled my 158 I. Q. ADHD fueled brain to a grinding halt.
My fingers knew the feeling of pussy, be it wet or dry. This was spine-tingling, I didn't know where I was, what my poor hand was having done to it or if i would still have fingers when and if it were ever coming back to my body. My mind started a "Count" I just remember feeling shit, and my mind being unable to make any kind of logical layout of what it was. I felt, two (I guess you could say) baby scrotum's hanging separately. Along with other curtains and folds and nothing I could mentally associate with a vagina.
Then I saw it, tragic, life changing.
As children we grow up thinking along the lines of, Boys-"outtie" Girls-"inny's" . Thats not a bad concept to grow up with.
Another term that I only fully understood in my 30's. "Snatch" , it really does look as if someones dick was has been ripped clean off of the body, and various tare's of skin remain.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

In the vast majority of cases, no, we don't care.

Some guys may have a "preference", meaning something they would pick if there was a "build your own girlfriend" kit, but no guy picks his girlfriend that way, or worries about this once he's with her.

Vulvas vary from girl to girl, and no two are the same. That's a GOOD thing from a guy's perspective; we have evolved to DESIRE variation in women. It's kind of like how we want to see ALL boobs, and aren't satisfied just seeing one or two pairs. If we were, strippers the world over would starve!

To me, one of the fun parts of a new partner is the uniqueness of their body, and it's always been a bit of an adventure for me to explore it and figure out all of its hidden secrets.

peace-love-couture · Accepted Answer

Some look less attractive than others but the same could be said about penises.

Typically, circumcised penises are considered more attractive than uncircumcised...as far as labias, innies are typically considered more attractive..

But they aren't gonna care as long as it's clean and healthy and they love you...even if they don't love you, chances are they won't back out just because of your labia

jpinka · Accepted Answer

ur good to go. and its normal. if its what I think it looks like guys like the little extra skin caus it rub on them adding to their pleasure. maybe some guys don't like it but you can't please every1, its not like you can tie it in a knot lol

Flippydaydream · Accepted Answer

hopefully a pretty face is more important than what the vulva/vagina looks like, haha, but who knows nowadays

TheUglyOne · Answer

Nah...a vagina is a vagina, and few "look pretty". We just pleasuring them and being pleasured by them.

baliguy11 · Answer

not really.  girl I have tried to explain this to others.  do you care what your guy's **** and balls look like.  do not answer.  making a point.  long before we get there some level of hot horny attraction is going on.  it comes down to feelings not what your kitty cat looks like.  I can assure you that when a guy is balls deep in your p**** he is not thinking one bit about what it looks like.

CuriousEddie · Answer

Most guys like all vaginas. Many girls are concerned (incorrectly) that theirs is different in some way.  This Tumblr site might help.

Dionysos · Answer

Don't worry about it.  It's like finger prints. Everybody's is different, but we males like em all.  Yours sounds pretty sexy for that matter.  When you bring it out to play, I don't think you'll have anything to worry about.  Whatever lucky bastard gets to be your first will love it.  :-D

taster · Answer

Hmmm..the short, simple answer is "No" but a lot of us have preferences...what is "normal"? I actually prefer outties and non-fat/non-puffy majora...have I ever walked away from sex with a female? Or from a relationship either for that matter...because of her vulva? Hmm...I guess not...Would you explain to me which of the following vulvas are normal? I've seen a few in my time...yet... I'm still not sure...maybe you could clear this up for me..There's a good girl...o.O

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Looner · Answer

You have a functioning vagina. That's all that matters to me. (granted I'm a virgin at 24). But I'm sure it all feels the same.

Dragan · Answer

There are no two alike vagina. Each has its own beauty. You don't need to worry about that.

Philyouup · Answer

Never feel down about the way you were made. and when it comes to some itsy bitsy beef curtains, never you mind! We love vagina, men, lesbians, bis, etc... not one would turn their nose up on a little bit of willing vagina, unless it was getting in the way of oral... ( the nose, not the lips) lol

Anonymous · Answer

Your normal and have no reason at all to feel insecure :)

Anonymous · Answer

Really all vaginas are ugly. Dicks are ugly too. Why not just embrace the ugliness?

Anonymous · Answer

no, I have never seen an unattractive labia.

Anonymous · Answer

Trust me...you have nothing to worry about.  Whatever guy is lucky enough to be with you is going LOVE your labia!  That's just a fact.

Anonymous · Answer

I care a teeny tiny bit but not really. I'm just going to be straight up honest and admit that some vagina look slightly better than others but they all do look good anyways. If I love a girl I'm going to love the way she looks down there because I've already made my mind up before I've seen the vagina that I love her. I've never seen a bad one lol. The only way your vagina would turn me off is if you didn't rinse the outside with water for a few days, or just ran a few miles and it's all sweaty, or wiped your butt from back to front lol. From what you describe you have a normal sexy vagina and the first guy that sees and feels it will probably come fast and hard lol.

Anonymous · Answer

You're fine, and probably worrying about something he's not going to give much thought to! I know the feeling and I used to be the same way about my penis and so far nobody ever said anything bad about it :) So relax, and try not to focus on the supposed negatives of yourself instead think about the positives.

Anonymous · Answer

they all look amazing, don't worry about it

Anonymous · Answer

I don't think they care at all You're naked That's all that matters

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