Do guys see big boobs and automatically think they are getting laid?

I keep reading these posts on GAG that say its only a certain type of guy that feel that if a girl has big boobs he has certain rights to them. If that is true why am I always fighting off guys trying to get down in my blouse? Do big boobs = to getting laid?
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  • I'd say it is a certain kind of guy because I've experienced multiple sides of this. Some guys are more bold, but they're actually okay to hang out with. Other guys see a certain kind of figure and - for whatever reason - decide that it means an easy lay. Then there are the guys, however rare they are or seem to be, who don't let boobs really get to them. Sure, they like a good pair, but they're not trying to get something out of you immediately. And, of course, it's not just about the way a girl is built. The way someone is dressed also makes a difference.

    Bottom line, as you may have deduced from the answers already posted, is that larger breasts don't equal sex.

    I'm going to go out on a limb here and say that if you make yourself more unavailable (through body language, for example), you'll have less of a problem with guys trying to get a piece out of you. If I pick up on that kind of unsavory motive, I let my inner bitch off the leash, and that chases them off.

  • only if you dress accordingly. If your boobs are halfway popping out of your shirt some guys will assume that you did that in order to draw attention to them, that's logical..if their out you must want us to look and possibly touch them. I know its hard to wear certain things when your chest is too big and they may be out when you dint want them to be but make more of an effort to dress like you don't want to get felt up.

    And if its not the way you dress then maybe they look at you and think, big boobs..pin up girl. Nothing you can do about that because there's a social stigma attached to them. Boobs are a sex object to most men and you have an abundance of it...

  • if you imagine a line up of women from small and petite to busty and ask men to pick out the virgin, its likely they won't pick the one with big boobs. They've been getting attention from men for their boobs long before the other girls and they are probably more sexual because of it. Also men associate big boobs with sex and p*rn stars, since most p*rn stars and strippers are large chested...Its kinda the same stereotype as when people say fat people are easier because their more desperate, busty women epitomize sex

Most Helpful Guys

  • I love it how all the women on this question and answer post are all anonymous lol, but honestly it truly does depend on a guy as well as how you want to be portrayed and been seen as a person(and even how you act) a lot of women hate having big boobs because of that reason but don't think of it that way, think of it as a way to weed guys out because only the one that truly loves you as a whole(personality, traits, needs, wants, soul, mentality, etc.) and not just a pair of boobs will truly find you :-) there is always more to a person then physical appearance but there are also a lot of a**hole guys out there so just don't pay any attention to them and I wish you the best of luck in finding true happyness as well as a person to spend the rest of your life with as well as being able to see you as the true person you are :-)

  • I'm a fan of big boobs myself. And it certainly may be true that if I see a hot girl with great boobs that I'd LIKE to have sex with her, that doesn't mean I think I'm GOING to. Big difference.

    So I'd say your issue is just that guys find you attractive, which isn't a bad thing. If they're acting like douchebags who don't respect you, then you shouldn't date or hang out with them and then you won't have to fight them off trying to get down your blouse. In other words--you can take your boobs and go home. ;-)

    • your name says it all.

    • Hahaha!

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  • It does seem like girls with big boobs are easier, just from my experiences. Then again, a lot of girls with big boobs tend to show them off more with how they dress. Which in return gives guys the wrong idea maybe. Just my take on it.

  • No, but they probably are taking higher risks in their approach, in view of the higher rewards:

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    Plus they know girls with boobs get hit on more casually and more often so they ratchet it up to stand out.

  • There was actually even a survey on that topic in Belgium ^^ Some professors must be really bored (or horny).

    Girls with bigger breasts have a bigger self-esteem, they're proud of what they have and show it off. This gives the signal to the guys to "go for it". It's that easy. If you take care of what you wear, you won't have that problem anymore.

  • Not at all. Just because a girl has big boobs does not mean she wants to get laid, or expects it to be easy (from my point of view). Sure, it's attractive, but it should not automatically lead to sexual thoughts. That's bad.

  • How do you dress?

    • I don't think I dress with a lot of cleavage showing, but it is hard to hide them. They are obviously very much there. My sister and I can switch clothes very easily. She wears things that are normal on her and I wear the exact same thing and I usually have to pin the top because of my boobs.

  • Your question is kinda self-explanatory.

    The truth is that almost every guy prefers big boobs, whether or not they admit it, whether or not they seek easy sex or something more. So when a girl haves them - she is more attractive than other girls and is more likely being approached by guys, and in places like bars or clubs nobody really goes with a thought to find a girlfriend.

  • No, big boobs is not equal to getting laid or cheap girl.. I certainly don't think that way. But big boobs sure do grab attention of guys. and they hv an eyeful to watch. Me for instance like medium to small breasts but every time I see a big boob, takes a few seconds to take my eye off. Its not a particular turn on, but it is nice and beautiful to watch the curves :)

  • no I base that off how fit they are

  • i have noticed that guys do act different around women with big boobs. I don't know why. but big boobs are attractive to many men. and unfortunatly many cannot behave. and yes I like big boobs too. but I would not go grabbing..

    • How do they act different?

    • I want to switch bodies with a chick with small boobs and see.

  • No,but big boobs attract more attention because of there size

  • No, not at all. But big boobs = I'm more excited to get laid and if it does happen I'll probably enjoy it more and come harder. Yay boobs!

  • i feel you, I have DDs and I get a lot of looks and attention because of them. and then even when you are dating a guy and he talks about your boobs and how much he loves them, it makes you wonder if he would still want you with smaller ones. I have a big ass too so I never hear the end of it.

    sometimes I like my body, and it makes me proud to look like a woman, but you have to filter out a lot of douchebags, and I'm not the type who wants a one night stand.