Do guys usually get an ego boner when a really beautiful girl gives him attention?

not sexual attention , more like asking them a lot of questions, laughing...just the normal things people do all the time. this attention doesn't have to be in a way where the guy likes the girl, but just in general too. like I had a convo with my crush this one day...I guess he was happy that I was being attentive and giving him attention and asking questions about himself (he thinks I'm really sexy - not quite sure he likes me) ...I realized this after when we left class in the halls he was being really loud and cocky with every guy friend he knew that walked past him...He sounded excited and happy...I was like , "why is he being so weird?...he is never like this" then I realized it was because I was giving him a ego boner. he would be like all loud, "yo wasssup my niggah!" and his friends' reactions were like *wtfff is wrong with you, man..u okay?* at the same time I feel bad for him because he's sorta intimidated by me. and I certainly don't wanna scare him off. how do I achieve this? I don't know I feel like he will be too shocked to function when I really put myself out there for him, I don't want him to think, "whoa does she lilke me? NAHHH" do you get me? hope so. or will it be the opposite..? All I want is for him to feel like I'm not out of his league, that I won't put him on a pedestal. I want him to ask me out, and actually try. and not see me as a trophy just because of my looks. I'm already trying my best. well not exactly my best. but I'm trying. I find ways to converse with him
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(this question doesn't apply to my situation only- just in general) and does this ego boner ever drive them to asking the girl out as a potential love interest? or does it just only make the guy want the girl sexually? oh and he doesn't think I'm hot because of my body...my body is totally average. its my face, my looks. I don't dress like a slut either.
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or does the huge ego boost (boner) only happen is the guy is interested or likes the girl?
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since I can't delete this question: I MEAN EGO BOOST! NOT A literal boner. I WAS USING BONER AS A FUNNIER AND DIFFERENT WAY OF SAY BOOST. I NEVER ASKED IF IT GIVES GUYS BONERS...I MEANT THE EGGGGOOOOOOOOOOO, which in this case means BOOST. SO there is no penises involved in this question.
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  • "EGO" boner? Well...not me...do some guys? Eh..idk..I suppose that there are some...had never thought of that concept before...however there is nothing going that fails to turn some guys/gals on and turn others off...seems like I was reading some historic account once of a woman who who would have a victim tortured and then have them slain right at the moment she orgasmed? Oh..and how about Countess Bathory? O.OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

  • Sorry, no.

    • are you being serious? or just acting dumb

    • Just answering the question in the title.

    • really? they dont? so you think they would get an ego boost only if the guy likes the girl and not in general?

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  • yeah it takes more than that to do it lol.

    • what? elaborate...be specific

    • okay visual displays of a woman's flesh, from revealing all the way to nudity. erotic motions and movements that suggest sex anticipation of having sex with the woman you are with. manual stimulation of the penis sometimes reading or hearing erotic literature. watching sexual acts, in p*rn or real life but mere attention from a beautiful girl? Not even I am that desperate lol.

    • well okay, an ego boost is different than a "boner" lol. Sure we can get ego boosts from getting attention, positive attention, from a beautiful woman. Not always, but it can happen.

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  • No.

  • an ego boner? wtf

    • GOD DAMMIT I MEANT BOOOST! :/ read the update