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Do guys who finish early in sex

feel bad? I'm hooking up with this guy and the first time we had sex he would come early but continue to make me satisfied. But this last time, he finished early and didn't even attempt satisfying me at all. Is that selfish? I certainly felt upset about it. What are reasons a guy would do that?
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i guess I'm just conditioned to my ex, who would come quickly, and then pick right back up a couple minutes later. I don't know how he did it, because its hard for me to have multiple orgasms but thanks for all of your advice.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Well it's only selfish if he's purposely just getting off and then rolling over without even bothering trying to get you off...

    But if he really just can't hold it very long... then it's REALLY hard to continue sex after a guy has already finished. I mean I've tried it few times to please a girl... but it's difficult... and eventually I'll just lose my erection and be unable to keep doing it... If my girl were unsatisfied afterwards though... then I'd try to find some other way to get her off... either with oral or fingering... oral might require a shower first, cause I'm sorry but I don't want to be tasting BOTH our juices.

  • Happens to me when I don't have sex for a few days. Usually wait about 20 minutes or so after I c*m and we are ready to go again. I wouldn't get upset about it unless it happens all the time. Most guys love to see their woman satisfied. Just something that would be funny...next time you're giving him head and he is ready to c*m...STOP...and tell him that is how you feel when you're not satisfied...but do it in a fun way...not a cruel way.

    • Lol that would b funny

    • Ouch. that would be kind of mean. I would strongly recommend not doing this, odds are he'll get quite mad.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Because he's only thinking about himself.

    I think it's selfish - does he know you're upset about it?

    • No I haven't talked to him since actually. this was the other night and I just left early without saying goodbye. what should I do about it, because I feel like its selfish too?

    • Tell him you expect better if he wants to continue hooking up. If this is a FWB type of relationship, why else would you be sleeping with him if not to get some sexual satisfaction? Remind him you aren't in it to just make him feel good - if he wants that then he needs make you his girlfriend.

    • Ok I'll talk to him. thanks!

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  • Sounds like he's gotten lazy. Some guys do that...although usually not so soon

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  • For most guys, it's difficult or impossible to continue sex after they come. That said, it is selfish for him not to attempt to satisfy you. If your girl's not done, she gets her choice of hands, mouth, toys or tools until she is satisfied.

  • Guys,it's girls that do that,stop she says I had enough,but don't complain 2hours is long enough.

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