Do I have the Madonna/whore complex?

I was reading David shades cure nice guy and I realized I may have the Madonna/whore complex, its like this I only want sex with and am sexually attracted to, say women like April Scott, but emotional and mentally I'm attracted to women like dodger Leigh, I think I know where this stems from, but how do I recover from this and no longer have it?
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  • The Madonna/Whore complex definitely plagues the nice guy. He gives no romantic opportunity to the woman he wants to sleep with, and no sexual freedoms to the woman he wants to date. This leaves both types of women out there very unhappy, it is unfair to them, and is thus why the nice guy ends up alone a lot.

    I really think it's a matter of changing your thinking. I don't know that you can change who you're sexually attracted to, except maybe giving yourself a chance to view those "good girl" in a more sexual light and realize that sex does not make her less of a good girl. And you need to start creating a mantra for yourself that girls who are sexual and with a sexual history are not inherently wrong. They're human. You will only damage a girl's self-esteem, as well as ruin your own sex life, if you make girls feel ashamed about sex. Promise you that.

    • so treat women as ladies outside the bedroom, but in the bedroom, in bed treat her like a whore, i.e. give her all soughts of sex including dirty and kinky so to speak, sorry if I've offended you but I hope you get my point.

    • Treat women as ladies outside the bedroom, and let her be whoever she wants inside the bedroom. Maybe she wants sweet sex, maybe she wants kinky sex, who knows. But considering you have a complex about whores, I'm reluctant to tell you treat them like "whores." That likely means something very disrespectful to you.

    • i don't have a maddona whore complex per se, I think my problem stems from my narassitic mother telling me that there are good girls who are non sexual then there are whores who are, and there's nothing in between and if I date a more sexual woman she'll cheat only the good girl will have eyes for me and that the whore won't but I really don't judge anyone for their sex lives, you see I want oone nigt stands, I want wild crazy kinky sex, I want to be dirty in the bedroom.

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  • Look for a woman who is both. You never know, April Scott types might have a Dodger Leigh personality.

    • Any advice on how i could go about this?

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  • I thought Madonna whore complex meant either:

    All woman are either whores or virgins

    Or

    You want to screw promiscuous women but have the audacity to want a virgin wife.