Do men ever exchange blow jobs?

I always wondered if men exchanged blow jobs when they spend the night at each others' houses. I mean, if a guy can give a girl oral sex, giving a guy oral sex is probably easy. Not to mention the penis is much better looking than the vagina, & isn't moist like a vag. No judgments, just answer honestly. Go anonymous if you are ashamed.
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  • I've never heard of this being a "common thing" when guys spend the night together.

    But as far as giving another guy a blow job, I've been fantasizing about this a lot lately.

    I'm not gay - definitely don't get aroused by looking at a man and definitely find women attractive - so I've asked myself why this act attracts me. Here's what I think:

    1. I fantasize about what it would feel like if it were being done to me.

    2. I fantasize about what it feels like to her, what I'd be making her feel if she were doing this to me.

    3. By fantasizing about enjoying it, I imagine her enjoying it. The idea of a women really getting turned on doing it turns me on.

    4. I fantasize that I'm being watched by a women while doing it, and that it turns her on.

    While some men will think that this makes me gay, again, I know what I'm attracted to and what turns me on. I have never seen a guy and once, in all my life thought "oooh, there goes one awesome looking hunk."

    With luck though, despite being committed to the relationship I'm in, I experience admiring a hot girl at least once a day.

    I like getting turned on way more than I care what others think.

    So what it would feel like to me, what it would feel like to her, her getting off on doing it, and her getting off on watching it: these are the things that excite me when I think about giving a guy a blow job.

  • If they're heterosexual there's not a hope in Hades of ever doing such a thing; if they're bi-curious, bi-sexual or homosexual then they probably would. I have never been in the situation-in fact I've never even stayed over any friends' houses as I have my own to go to and I don't like to impose on anybody- suffice to say if there is an all-night/late-night thing it'll invariably involve videogames, watching pro-wrestling, debating on things and then resorting to childish name-calling, getting upset from said name-calling and then reconciling, and perhaps demolishing buckets of Fried Chicken.

    Otherwise, as stated- this is something that would never, ever cross the mind of 99% of guys, much less be acted on.

    • Do you think the fact that you never stayed over with a guy makes your knowledge limited? That's not meant as rude, I'm just throwing stuff out there. From what I know, men love receiving oral, & I don't understand why it wouldn't cross men's minds just to exchange a BJ with a friend. I mean, the penis isn't gross in any way, why not? Plus, it might be fun :)

    • hell yeah this guy is the sh*t!

    • Definitely not; I can see your viewpoint however guys love receiving oral from whomever they're attracted to-namely females for the vast majority of guys out there. That said, also there are certain things you don't do with friends and that would be one of them.

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  • No straight guy would do that. I'm disappointed that you would consider the penis to be more better looking than the vagina, because you are female and I believe that women do have beautiful genitals (no I am not a lesbian). Now guys want blow jobs from girls.

    • Believe it or not, many guys do this, most just don't tell anyone. And, everyone is attracted to different things, so it's not my fault if I think vaginas are gross. I think the penis is much much better looking, I can't help how I feel, I'm straight.

    • Look the majority of guys are homophobic to a certain extent.

    • I don't think many guys do this. lol

  • I know several straight guys who admit to having done this...need to dig deep for guys to admit it and be very non-judgemental for them to open up about it. Perhaps they are or were bi-curious, but if everyone was willing, what's the problem?

    • Isn't that such a turn on? Did they share details with you, do you want to give some information?

    • Shared lots of details. What do you want to know?

    • What happened, did the guy giving it enjoy it as well, what was it like?

  • Really? What straight guy would do that? So that must mean all girls have pillow fights and makeout at skeepovers...it doesn't happen

    • Yeah, but girls aren't as cute as guys :)

    • Sleepovers* and what does that have to do with it? Lol

    • Well, I just imagine two guys in bed together & one cuddling up to the other & saying, "Hey Bob, are you sleeping?" Bob says no, and the other guy starts rubbing his leg against Bob & continues to say, "Would you ever let another guy give you a blow job?" And the rest plays itself out, it sounds great, doesn't it.

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  • straight guys don't.

    straight guys prefer looking at, fondling, licking and tasting a vagina

  • If the guys are gay or bisexual maybe but straight guys generally don't. I haven't done it and I have no desire to either.

  • HELLL NO! That's just not right... That's what you call gay!

  • Not any of the straight ones I know. We aren't curious about our own sex like girls can be.

    • I think men are just as curious, & I think many women just pretend to be curious just to turn guys on. Many women will kiss just to turn a guy on, & I'm not into that.

    • The thought of kissing another man gives me the major cringes.

    • I understand, the thought of giving another woman gives me the cringes too, lol.

  • The problem is one of attraction; I just don't find guys hot, and having one go down on me would be quite the deflator, so I turn down those offers.

    That said, I know guys who wouldn't, despite identifying and living as straight. It's commonplace, a custom in some quarters, for the heteroflexible to get their nuts drained by another (typically gay) guy, especially during a dry spell.

    P.S.: if you like watching guy-guy bjs, head to a gay bar, make some friends.

    • So, you've had offers, that's kind of cool.

    • Well.. if you have friends who go to gay bars, and you tag along but your straight ... you'll still get hit on is my assumption on his offers :)

    • Exactly. If you have gay friends and they hang with you on your ground, then you return the favor, unless you're a prick. However, walk into a gay bar looking single, and the obvious occurs.

  • I don't think it is at all common...

    but when I was younger and spent the night with friends, it would happen.

    • same

    • That's hot, can you share some detail?

    • What detail? We were horny, and would touch each other... and later, touching led to sucking. But I don't think it was mutual.

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  • I've never heard of two straight men ever doing such a thing.

    • I can't count the number of str8 guys I sucked off in hs. Once they realize they don't have to reciprocate, lots of str8 guys want it all the time. I kept getting those text msgs: you free now? wanna hang out?

  • Nice to know I'm not the only girl who finds this kinda hot!

  • I'm not attracted to guys but I've given head to another guy before. I wanted to see what it was like, and it kind of turns me on for some reason. I'd like to do it again.

  • Vomit. WTF no! That holds no interest for me at all. I find the idea repulsive. Why get a BJ from a man when I can from women?

  • Nope.

  • WTF HELL NO!...we either

    A) complain about our gf

    b)boast about all the things we've done

    c) brag with who we've done stuff with

    d) play video games

    f)get high

    g)debate sports

    NOTHING ELSE!

    • f*** yes!

    • glad you agreee

  • LOL hell no. that was funny.

  • No. That's gay.

  • Prior to ever having sex…yes, I had thought about it (trading BJs with a friend) and was curious. We looked at porno magazines and ended up jacking off together (laying beside each other on the fold out couch) but we never touched each other. I always wondered if he had considered or thought about it but was too chicken to ask.

    My curiosity did finally get the better of me as an adult. I mentioned the thought/curiosity of sucking a hard cock to my wife…. She made it a short term goal to get a hard one in my mouth…. We setup a MMF with the main goal of me sucking one. She started and I went down and assisted. Then I took over. We did a few other things to get my wife worked up…. Then we went back to me sucking…. While she was holding his cock for me…. she said: Cum for me. And he asked, are you sure…. And her reply, yes…cum for me.. and about 30 seconds later I made him cum in my mouth.

    It was an interesting/fun experience. maybe I’ll try it again sometime…?

  • I’m a mostly straight guy. One night I went to a gay bar after doing a few lines of speed. I met this guy and we went out back and he sucked my cock in the ally. After I came in his mouth, I got on my knees and sucked his sweet hard cock till he came in my mouth... The next day I felt a little ashamed and guilty, but I called him up so we could both suck each other’s cock again. Maybe I’m bi but hell but it felt so fucking good when he sucked my cock. Better than the 100 plus gals I had been with..

  • i have never had a blow job from another man but i had wondered what it would be like to give a blow job,
    over many years it played on my mind but i kept telling myself it's not right well one day i decided i had to try it because the feeling just would'nt go away so i joined a gay dating site and after several months i got to do the deed and i could'nt believe just how amasing it felt.
    afterwards i felt so guilty and said that i would never do it again, i lied it's the most exciting sex act i have ever done.
    i don't fancy men in the slightest but empting a guys balls is an amasing feeling.

  • Damn I'm so turned on after reading this stuff , I am attracted to women but i had a friend talk me into giving him head when you get and he was later to be the one that became insecure about it and we anted to stop , but by that time i loved to feel cock in my mouth and i would be basically trying to persuade him into letting me suck him with no reciprocation by him like before we would 69 or switch off. To this day i am turned on by the idea , and i like to look at big cocks online a lot but he is straight and i doubt would want that now , but if he said those words again "(just suck it one time ") like the first time it happened and it was in front of me i wouldn't hesitate to drop to my knees mouth open. I love women and i love big dicks , i don't deny facts , i feel very straight , but i know what j think about and what I've done is kind of considered, never kissed and that's a turn off , couldn't cuddle with a man either but anything involving the Dick I'm interested. lol 🤷🏻‍♂️

  • I did this with a friend when we were kids/ early teenagers. I’d spend the night at his house and his mom never really paid attention to what we did so we would watch or look at porn if we could get it, masturbate, and sometimes suck each others dicks. We both grew up to be straight. I only date women and only want an intimate relationship with women but part of me kind of wants to watch porn and masturbate with another guy and try sucking a dick again. I only Oral and handjob stuff though. Kissing a guy would still be kind of gross unless he were very feminine Or even a Transgender woman. I just kind of like cock, I think I developed a mild fetish. If it makes me a little bit gay or bi sexual, bi curious I don’t really care. I don’t know if I’ll ever act on the urge or not.

    • Wow i related to this story like 100% no BS , maybe we should hang out lol ..

    • My experience is similar, if it feels good , do it!

  • I'm a senior citizen, and lots of us older guys trade blow jobs. We don't get them at home, so we take care of it ourselves. Over the past twenty years I've exchanged more blowjobs than handshakes. I take a lot of pride in the quality of blow jobs I give. Never assume your dad or grandpa isn't out sucking cock.

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