Do men in their 40s want to have flings with 20 year old women?

Have you ever hooked up with a much older guy? If the girl is in her 20s and the guy is in his 40s or early 50s and they are both really attracted to each other and neither party is married...is there really anything wrong with it? How did it happen?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Nothing wrong with it at all if you both want it. I've been getting a lot of younger girls hitting on me the last couple of years for some reason & if I'm attracted to her I'll be damned if I'm going to turn her down. Just 2 weeks ago I was at my step daughters place, we were all going to a bar, when I was in the can her friend came in & we did it right there.. It was her doing. She's 23 and hot. Kind of blew me away how straight forward she was. Same when I go to the club or bar, tho not that often cause I don't drink but I always end up coming home with a girl in her 20s. This may be odd but I seem to have it easier now then when I was in my twenties. A lot of times I had to work at it. And I always thought I wasn't that bad looking back then.

    I just turned 43

    So I say if your mature enough to be with a man that much older definitely go for it & don't worry about what anyone thinks or says. It's your life, no one elses.

  • well, I am 58 and my girlfriend is 37, it works for both of us. We met on the internet. I did get get an offer from a girl that was 19, I thought that was too young, I was thinking if we got married maybe it would be best for her if I sent her to college. If for some reason I broke up with my current GF, I would likely look for someone 24-45. But mostly we will get married.

    The odds are that one problem with younger women / older men will be that women will want children and the older guy is likely to not want kids. If it is just about sex, I can't see any problems, but I really don't care what other people think, while some people are judgemental.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I haven't done it but its called those women are gold diggers if not they are crazy

    • Some older men are very attractive. Not because of money. Some are just sexy, but it is a taste thing. I'm not talking about fat gray wrinkled and balding with a big wallet. I'm talking George Clooney and Chris Noth...to a girl in her early 20s they are older men.

    • ... maybe she just wants a more experienced man without to commit (that is if he is attractive)

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  • i think guys want sex with what's hardest to get, I mean, 40 year old guys fantasize about 20 year old women, and 17 year old guys fantasize about milfs, its kinda ironic.

  • yes

  • Yes they do

  • Men of every age want to have sex with 20 year old women. That's pretty much prime.

    • he speaks for me

  • I suppose the younger men can't get laid by that particular 20 y/o girl.

    Also, some 30-40 something y/o woman can't game this 40-50 something guy with the prospect of pushing for marriage.

    So, her relationship with him means there is a younger man and older woman out there somewhere that will never be together (since he's looking for sex, and she's looking for money & marriage NOW!) so they'll both be single.