Do Men Really Think Sex Fixes Everything?

[ineedanwsers09]

Me And My Boyfriend get in to argument's from time to time. And he seems to think sex will fix the situation. Dose he really believe this will help?

[foxydaisy]

Girls tend to apologize by talking more and comisserating with each other.

Guys apologize in a simple verbal way, but make up for that in physical intimacy. For guys, actions are more important. One of the more intimate physical displays is, of course, sex. He's trying to say sorry in a way that seems more sincere to him.

Although I bet he doesn't mind that it feels good for him too. =P But really, that's just another aspect of the whole physical 'conversation'. If you agree to have the make-up sex, letting him enjoy as well and please you, then you are tacitly accepting his apology and forgiving him.

So yes, he really believes it will help. =)

If you still feel weird about it, just talk to him. There's no reason you can't do both types of reconciliation if you want to. =P

[Shlei3]

Maybe not you but for him or perhaps he has a thing for "make-up sex". What does he say when you tell him that it's not a solution?

[ineedanwsers09]

I Haven't told him yet

[Shlei3]

I would talk to him about it then if it bugs you so much.

[melleasy]

i belive that sometimes it can resolve problems I have did it myself but what can help is talking to a girl and telling her how you fell about what is wrong

[l-hedoniste]

Fix everything, no. Improve everything, yes.