Do most girls give blowjobs?

It just seems a bit gross to me and a bit awkward... because my mouth hurts if I open it up wide, and with a blow job don't you have to open up really wide and keep it like that until he is done? are blow jobs expected in a relationship? I don't want to do it :(
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  • I swore for years I would never give a blow job... The thought of it absolutely disgusted me. In fact, I actually posted a question just like this several years ago on here. lol

    Buttttt...after I started seeing my ex, I changed my mind. I was SOOOO crazy about him and that I randomly started fantasizing about giving him head. One night he encouraged me down there and while it was a little tricky at first to get a rhythm ...It was really kind of nice. I got turned on by how turned on he was and I was so into it that I even swallowed.

    I could never give a blow job to just any guy, but if I am reallllllly into a guy...I love it. = )

  • I never thought that I would want to give a bj before. I thought it was really kind of weird at first. However, when I was with my boyfriend of a long time, I had developed a want to do it for him because I knew he liked it. He never pushed me into doing it, and I got to doing it at my own pace. Now I don't mind doing it for the guys I am with... It got to the point of being fun. However you should never be pushed past your comfort level in any relationship. He should respect you for what you are willing to do.

  • I'm not fond of bjs either, I find it kind of repulsing tbh. If a guy finds that as a deal breaker, then he's a moron and he's probably a waste of time. Sex can still be great without bjs.

Most Helpful Guys

  • If you don't want to do it, then don't! If the guy can't respect that, then he's a douche. Enough said. Sex is about having fun, so don't do anything you don't think is fun. Simple...The right guy for you won't give a sh*t if you like giving head or not.

    I personally just tell girls if they don't like giving it, that I don't care, it's their choice and I won't force them to do anything.

    • My view. I don't care. Had gfs who liked to do it, some didn't. Fine, as long as we.enjoy the time we have, who cares how? Not me. If he makes it a deal, he is nuts (bad pun)!

  • Yes. Pretty much expected including an in mouth sucking finish. No need to suck hard. A vagina doesn't. You needn't take him deep. Just kiss and "nurse" at the cap while stroking the shaft with your front teeth parted enough not to scratch him. When he ejaculates, it will be against your tongue with no gagging or choking and you can discreetly drool it out with no need to swallow.

    • eww I don't want to do that :(

    • There will be guys that don't really want it but for many you might like it will be a deal breaker. You will have to adjust your expectations to how much you are willing to invest. Your feelings about intimacy are yours alone and even love won't necessarily make them acceptable for long.

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  • if you like the person enough, than it should be fine. I always thought going down on a girl would be gross, until I did it with my girlfriend and it was a lot of fun

    • at least you only have to lick to go down on a girl, not open your mouth up wide and strain it.

    • theres more technique involved than you think

  • it is a requirement for me, yes. But, sex might be a bigger deal for me than some guys, so I can't speak for everyone.

  • Can you eat a banana? try to give a banana a BJ and see for yourself.. really. practice and enjoy..

    • I don't suck on bananas I chew them. Plus aren't penisis wider then that?

  • Speaking only for myself...as long as I was allowed to give you oral (and frequently) then I would be fine with never receiving from you...(:(:(:

  • Blowjobs themselves are not a deal-breaker, but an attitude about sex that deems sex acts gross without trying them might indicate an attitude about sex that some guys might not want to work their way past.

    That said, if you are absolutely delightful in every other way, some guy's going to put up with it.

  • i love it, but obviously have to be attracted to the guy

  • Eventually yes