Do some guys prefer hand jobs to sex? Or is my boyfriend weird?

Have other girls known guys like this? And do guys know why this would be?
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  • There are some good answers here that address practical reasons--he's worried about pregnancy, or gets off more easily with a more direct touch.

    I'll add another possibility: he thinks it's hot! A handjob is different than sex, it's having you do the work, focusing on his pleasure in a decadent way. Plus it can be way more personal than a blowjob, since you can watch each other, make eye contact, kiss...

    A handjob can be sweet and flirtatious, it can be slow and sensual, or it can be filthy, like something you'd do furtively in a dark alley.

    It's just one more thing you can do to have fun together. As long as you both are enjoying it and getting what you want, go for it, it's perfectly normal!

  • He prefers a hand job from you over sex. There are a few reasons as to why, and if I were him, these would be my reasons. 1-He doesn't like the sight of you naked, or your body is a turn off, so instead of having sex he makes you give him hand jobs. 2-Your hand jobs feel better than having sex, which either A. Your really good at giving a hand job or B. Your really bad in bed. and 3-It is simply his preference, and nothing to be worried about in the least, unless he is being a jerk and not fulfilling your needs as well.

Most Helpful Girls

  • My guy loves gatting a handjob from me if I take of my pantyhose and use them to stroke him, he says the feeling is awesome. A few time I've blown him with them over his cock.

  • never heard that one before. although I guess its less wrok..depending on who you ask. lol.

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  • Could it be that he is really afraid of getting you pregnant? He may be really anxious about that. Just a guess...

  • Yeah he's a bit weird. I mean HJ's are nice but nothing really is better than sex.

  • Never had a hand job nor would I want one. I could think of two better places to put it that is warm and wet. :)

    • Coffee and hot chocolate don't count!

    • Really? Well I that counts me out. :(

  • Maybe you're just really good at it. I had a couple I hooked up with a few times for 2 ways (we're all bi) and he gave a great hand job.

  • When I was a virgin I was more for a hj / bj simply because I was afraid of getting her pregnant. Once I started having sex I stopped carring and preferred sex.

  • I'm not like that, I don't think most guys are.

  • Your boyfriend's not weird, it's just his preference! Anyway, it could be a few different things. Handjobs might feel better to him than sex. I've heard lots of people say masturbation feels better than sex because you have better control.

    Or maybe he's not ready for sex?

  • I would rather give a woman oral or have intercourse!

  • I can just speak for myself but I don't think he's weird. I prefer the same from my spouse. I am able to have a much longer buildup and intense orgasm and he probably feels the same. Don't get me wrong I enjoy it both ways. That just means you have a richer sex life together especially if he first makes you orgasm during intercourse

  • That's a strong sign of excessive masturbation, most likely to pornorgraphy.

  • You would have to ask him that one and only he knows . Unless he is gay . And no I do not know any other guy who does

  • maybe your p.ussy smells like rotten tuna

  • just what every guy wants, a nice tugger lmao