Do Tomboys develop feelings to Want to have sex with guys?

[Anonymous]

Guys who slept with tomboys...how does sleeping with a tomboy feel?

[tom-tom-traveler]

I guess it depends on your use of the word 'tomboy.' As my wife has told me, "tomboy" is slang in the Philippines for a woman who is a confirmed lesbian.

To me, however, a 'tomboy' is a more outgoing and gregarious type of woman who enjoys getting her hands dirty from time to time. She's unmistakably female, but is less prim and proper and more open and expressive.

I've had sex with both types of women. The first was a woman who was still heterosexual at the time and was quite excitable. In fact, she was the most adventurous woman I've ever had sex with, to include my wife (so far, at least). She didn't change preferences until after she left me and then went through a long marriage. She wound up leaving her husband for another woman.

The other type of woman was your classical American definition of a tomboy, and she was a young one at that. Having sex with her was no different from the times that I've had sex with other women who were more 'girly' by comparison, just as other people have stated.

To summarize: If I were single, and if I were persuasive enough, I'd prefer sex with a lesbian over having sex with with a tomboy if I was looking for a different level of excitement.

[thoughtbubble94]

Can I ask if she wanted to do anything sexually that was different from the girly girls unless it's too personal? Basically, was she more open or vanilla, as a tomboy in bed? Thanks

[TedStar]

Tomboys aren't gay just like metrosexuals aren't gay. Haven't had sex, but a heavy make out session confirmed that they may like typical guy things, but on instinct they are just as feminine as any other hgirl

[LouyJay]

Does being a tomboy really matter?

I'm a tomboy, but sexually I'm extremely feminine. My boyfriend adores it because I'm great fun to hang out with but also his "sex goddess" (his words exactly). I work with what nature gave me to be seductive.

I think your just making a major assumption, because your question almost implies tomboys are lesbians?! Not all tomboys are lesbians and not all lesbians are tomboys.

Tomboy is simply a type of personality where the individual has a higher interest in male associated activities than female ones. Some girls are just more of a tomboy than others.

[pierre7i]

@LouyJay The Asker's question is actually very relevant to me... as are your well-thought-out comments in reply.

[pierre7i]

I can so easily relate to the question + your comments because my girlfriend is a tomboy ! Actually she is bi-sexual, and in her homeland, Thailand (she is part Thai, part Laos) there are many tomboy girls. She looks boyish (very slim, small but firm breasts) but also feminine, if that makes sense. When we met she'd only every been sexual with other girls but somehow the chemistry between us, and growing feelings of romance/love, ultimately led us to be sexual with each other, firstly just exploring each other's bodies & sexuality, then oral and eventually to full penis-vagina sex. I love her tomboyishness, and I love her feminine side. And she is really lovely to be sexual with because her past experiences with girls makes her so soft & tender & caring in both her sexual responses during foreplay and her sexual 'innocence' during full penis-vagina sex belies the fact that not only does she enjoy it verrry much but she is also delightfully adventurous sexually.

[Stacyzee]

Yes, because a tomboy is a girl that in some cases are attracted to men.

So of course, it's going to be natural for her to develop feelings for one.

She is just someone that is usually overlooked because she is "one of the guys ".

[Anonymous]

they are still straight os they won't be different.

[madhatters4]

sleeping with a tomboy feels a lot like sleeping with a girl

[Apath4]

I think most girls were considered Tom boys

[ladsin]

... you mean girls that are like one of the guys and not prude stuck up bitches... my favorite kinda girl

[thoughtbubble94]

Depends for me, I could see negatives in both. A mixture would be interesting, though.

[qwer1234]

Like a boy.

[Cottoncandydreams]

tomboys are not the same as lesbians. They are just more into "male activities more.

[Anonymous]

tomboys won't make them different form any other heterosexual

[Anonymous]

yes they do

[Anonymous]

I think you are misjudging tomboys. How a person is in bed is individual, it doesn't matter on whether you are a tomboy or not. I am a tomboy and am really feminine in bed.