Do uncircumcised men come faster?

My man and I have been having some trouble since we got together with him cumming really quickly. His doctor told him that it may have something to do with him being uncircumcised? Does any one else have any trouble with this? When we have sex he will last a few minutes at first come but stay hard and we can go again right away and he will last longer like 25 minutes or so. I'm happy with it we both get off but he's not happy at all and gets really embarrassed about it. Any help advice or ideas would be greatly appreciated.
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My man is so upset with this he is actually thinking of getting circumcised at 23 I really don't see it needing to be done I kind of like him cuming quickly the first time as it makes it impossible for things to get dry and uncomfortable no matter what
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How do I make him feel better about it and see that it really isn't a big deal to me an that I actually like it. I've told him all this but its made no difference
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Most Helpful Guys

  • 2. Squeeze.

    If you're overheating during sex, stop and squeeze right below the head of your penis, focusing the pressure on the urethra — the tube running along the underside of the penis. This pushes blood out of the penis and momentarily represses the ejaculatory response.

    3. Pinpoint ejaculatory inevitability.

    The process of sexual response has four phases: excitement, plateau, orgasm, and resolution. The trick is to recognize the spectrum of feelings throughout the process. Rate your sexual excitement on a scale of 1 to 10. Try keeping yourself at 7.



    4. Sexercise.

    A Kegel is an exercise that helps tighten muscles responsible for ejaculatory control. Become familiar with them by cutting off the flow of urine and then starting and stopping it repeatedly. Once you have the exercise down, practice your Kegels anywhere: at your desk, behind the wheel. Tighten your muscles and hold for a count of 10, then release.



    5. Press, don't thrust.

    Press the end of your penis into her clitoral head. Linger in her vaginal entrance, where the most sensitive nerve endings are. When you do have intercourse, focus on small, shallow movements that penetrate the first 2 to 3 inches of her vagina.



    6. Show a little courtesy.

    Ladies first, gentlemen — and we're talking about more than just holding the door open. When you help her have an orgasm first, it relieves you of some of the pressure to please and the psychological anxiety that feeds into PE.

    7. Stop thinking of your orgasm.

    The area of the brain responsible for triggering orgasm is engaged whether you're trying to have one or halt one. The more attention you give it, the more likely it is to arrive. Focus on what's happening now — her silky thighs on your hips, say — and you'll diffuse pleasure throughout your whole body.

    8.Let her climb on.

    When she's on top, your penis is less stimulated. And ask her to go slowly — long and fast thrusting is hazardous to a man's endurance.

    9. Ask your doctor about Prozac.

    A recent study showed that 73 percent of men who suffered from premature ejaculation either were cured or improved after taking 20 milligrams of Prozac a day for a week and 40 mg thereafter.

  • I've experienced exactly the same situation myself and have also been thinking a lot about getting circumcised. Basically, it gets better with time and practice. Now, 10 years after my first sexual encounters, it's alright. I also have a few practical hints about what helped me to overcome these difficulties. I'd like to share them but I'd rather tell you via personal message, since it's about the details. :-)

    • Ik I'm 7 months behind LOL but could you send those to me too? Thank u

    • Can you share that with me to

    • @tellme

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  • Yeah, lasting longer is definitely one of the benefits of circumcision. It seems like it's taboo to talk about this, but every uncircumcised guy I've been with has been a complete minute-man. It's all unexpected endings and apologies with those guys. When you couple that with the whole hygiene problem, I'm really not sure why anyone would be against circumcision. I could deal with a guy who wasn't cut, but I'm glad that my guy is.

    • Gravygirl would you be willing to have your clitoral hood and labia cut off This is the same parts that becomes the foreskin on a male at 10 weeks gestation. it be easier hygiene but in male it contains approximate 20,000 erotic nerves the head or gland of the penis has 4,000 erotic nerves

    • It's not the same thing at all. Not even close. The victims of female genital mutilation can't orgasm. Circumcised guys can without any difficulty. Look, plenty of guys who are aware of the issue choose to have their sons circumcised, just as they were. If it was really this horrible thing would that happen? And BTW, what's with finding a year old comment on this? Pet issue or something?

  • He shouldn't be embarrassed, and you should tell him that it's fine and that you enjoy it. It sounds like he ejaculates prematurely, but if he keeps going, that's great for him and for you.

    I don't think it has much to do with his not being circumcised. My husband, who is uncircumcised, takes fairly long. However, when I pull his foreskin back, he is much more stimulated and tends to come faster.

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  • Perhaps you can try to get him to delay his ejaculation by getting him to almost cum, then when he feels ready, stop and have him try to hold it. Keep doing this until he has more control over when he pops. It's fun for both of you and when he does eventually cum, it will be a great feeling.

    Enjoy it and good luck.

  • I can last almost an hour with my restored penis. YOu sound like someone I need to talk to about uncircumsized penis.

  • well uncircumcised penis are more sensitive than circumcised penis. but there are ways that he can prolong his ejaculation

    • What would those ways be? do you care to share any ideas?

    • There are 10 ways I know 1. Master masturbation. Masturbate with a woman's orgasm in mind, not your own. In other words, take your time: Work up to 15 minutes. Bring yourself close to the point of no return, but don't let yourself ejaculate until time is up.

  • Yes they do cum faster, my ex girlfriend was a total whore and she said every guy that could last ages in bed were circumcised. The foreskin protects the penis glads in your pants but at the same time keeps it too sensitive so the sensitivity never wears down slightly so therefore making it much quicker to climax. Also friction in the vagina and the foreskin makes the man cum much sooner that normal and becomes a turn off for the female partner. Notice heaps of male p*rn stars are circumcised and its not just the performance drugs they use either. The foreskin needs to be less sensitive to last ages in bed there is no loss of pleasure. Think of it this way if someone that worked in an office all the time went out and did manual labour using their hands they would bleed a lot quicker than someone that does it all the time cos they have built up callosis and are less sensitive although eventually they would feel the same pain.

  • I dont understand why people are saying it this way round. Im circumsized and i cum really quickly. I always put it down to the head being fully exposed and stimulated at all times

  • I have the exact opposite problem as everyone. My uncircumcised dude last forever and it’s exhausting. He is the only man I’ve been with that did this so it makes me feel so self conscious like I’m too lose or something is wrong with me but it was never to at way before. Every guy before would cum so quickly. Ughh help

  • Some guys that are uncircumcised can have a VERY sensitive penis head. This is because it is almost always protected by the foreskin and therefore has little contact with the outside world. Getting the head used to being touched is key. Make sure your guy touches it a few times a day. I don't mean masturbate, just touch. He could also start using a penis health creme too. These cremes are great for overall penis health, and since he has to apply it daily, it should help him desensitize down there as well. Hope this helps.

  • Don`t let him get circumcised!

    I am and have the opposite problem - I am circumcised and often can't cum at all and have quite a few problems of that nature. It's not nice and I have a lot of feelings of failure and inadequacy as a result. I wish I was normal :-(

    He can learn to last longer with your help and delay his orgasm etc.

  • Sure it can figure into it, but a lot of things can as well . . . and the GREAT thing is he can go again right away and last much longer and you are satisfied. So really, really he shouldn't worry. And finally, if it makes him feel better: I AM circumcised and often come faster than he does. :)

  • i can't remember where I read, but an uncircumcised male's penis is up to 50-60% more sensitive than that of a circumcised one. meaning more sexual stimulation which in turn will make him come sooner.

    some tips, use a tigher fitting condom around the base of his penis, you should make him come one through other sexual activities and when he's ready for round 2, it'll last longer.

    • Thanks for the tips but we don't use a condom since they make his head sore with all the movement and if I get him off before we have sex it really doesn't make too much of a difference he still cums pretty quickly during sex.